I will start by saying that I resent the statement "animal rights folks will freak out." (Carlyzmom) Those of us who support animal rights are capable of providing sympathetic advice with a humane emphasis without being preachy. Yes, there are some very intense people in the world who support animal rights, but please do not let the minority cloud the reputation of the whole. For the most part, we are reasonable people with reasonable expectations of others.
That said, I think it is important to note that declawing as a solution to scratching is of course inhumane, but it also can cause a host of other issues.
I am the owner of 1 declawed male and 2 intact younger cats, 1 female/ 1 male. I willingly declawed the first cat and it made me realize that I will never declaw again. Here are some problems that can result from declawing:
-litter box avoidance (the pain from the clay litter can make them disinterested in using their box, so instead they use your laundry pile). This is a VERY tough habit to break in your cat and probably the most frustrating problem your cat can have (for you and him/her.)
-biting. When cats know they have no other method of defense, they turn to biting. This happened with my oldest cat and I have never broken him of it.
-personality change. I have witnessed cats go from being trusting and loving to going in a completely different direction-- scared, skittish, and sometimes mean.
-the arm muscles can suffer from a form of atrophy because the cat will never truly achieve a good forearm stretch. This can cause a ripple effect that affects the posture of the cat, the spine, and eventually cause arthritic symptoms.
-stressful self-mutilating behaviors. Due to the stress of the incident, cats can develop Psychogenic Alopecia, which is basically overgrooming to the point of hair loss. They do it to self-soothe. This happened to my oldest cat as well, and his 8 and still has a bald belly and forearms. No matter how much comforting I give him, he is still afraid. This is the worst guilt in the world.
-If your cat should get out by accident, declawing renders them defenseless against any type of other animal attack (dog, racoon). Not only can they not fight back, they cannot climb up a tree to get away from an attack.
-there are more, just google it and you can find a bunch of websites regarding the pros and cons.
Declawing is a personal decision between you and your vet, but I would recommend laser declawing if you feel you must do it. However, please note that there are humane and effective alternatives that do not harm the cat or possibly have these side effects. They include:
-scratch posts
-nail clipping
-nail filing systems like Pawdicure
-or what I use, Soft Paws which can be purchased at any Petsmart/ Petco/ Pet Supplies Plus/ etc. OR on ebay for less. They last a long time and are easy to apply, and they guarantee to me that my cats cannot scratch anything.
Good luck with your decision, and know that ALL animal rights supporters agree that you've already made the best decision of all by giving a loving and nuturing home to your kitten.