Mary, hang in there girlfriend! What a stressful time! Sounds like your mouth is better now at least. I hope you enjoy your daughters dance recital. It sounds very cute.
I know exactly what you mean about the weight thing on the medications. My DS will be 11 the end of the summer and still weighs 55ish pounds. But he is growing some (feet are getting bigger, and he's getting taller), so the dr. keeps saying he's okay. He hasn't been on the growth chart hardly ever though (10th percentile at most). There really hasn't been much difference in his weight based on whether he's on meds or not.
If you want to bring the kiddos down for a relaxing day, let me know. There's alway nice breezes blowing down here. Of course, it's not as nice as WDW, but it's a lot closer too!