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Shoeless in Minnesota
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During the assault weapon ban (1994-2004), mass shooting deaths were an average of 4.8/year.
2005-2017 they were 23.8/year. Let's not pretend it didn't work.
And if you truly think that healthcare is the issue, I surely hope you are fighting for the same universal healthcare coverage every other country has. You know, the countries where children do not have to practice active shooter drills.
If you don't, then you either don't care that children or dying or you really don't think that that is the issue.
4 out of 5 of my kids are in school. My youngest starts next year. My second oldest had a classmate suspended because he threatened to bring a gun in. That was last year when she was in 5th grade.
I'm tired of this. I'm tired of thoughts and prayers. I'm tired of "it's not the guns! it's the healthcare!" And then no one does anything about either.
You don't believe it's because of how easy it is to get a gun? Fine. Let's try universal healthcare coverage first. If that doesn't work then the weapons ban. I'm sick of these arguments that lead absolutely no where.
I get that, but those things can be reversed. My kid being shot can't. It was a nice break from that stress. And, my kids did very well with it, and have not had issues, so I have not struggled with the other side, that I know other people have.Unfortunately it also escalated the isolation issue for many. And we're starting to see the high price being paid educationally, which could reverberate for many years.
I have said for years, someone going into the profession of therapy, counseling, etc. will be set with a job forever thanks to the environment we all live in..
Yeah, I am always looking over my shoulder at those places, too, and do not go to theaters to see movies anymore, anyway (not just the shootings...which, yes, just this summer happened at my local theater, too). To be fair, I have always been a person who is leery of "the general public" so this doesn't just come from the horrible acts we have noticed an uptick in over the years, but it surely doesn't help. I always scope out exits, hiding spots, etc. when we go somewhere. Gotta love an anxious mind!I sometimes feel the same way, that I'm afraid for my kids to be at school, but then I think about all the other places they could just as easily get shot.
Movie theater, grocery store, church, walmart, hospital/medical office, walking or running along the greenway, concert, baggage claim area of airport, shopping mall, food court, sporting event, and on and on and on. Really at least the schools have drills and try to prepare the best they can, some of the other venues almost seem like more likely or more dangerous targets. Anyway, that's how I rationalize that it's okay to go to school, because there are so many other places to get shot, why should I assume it will be at school.
Yes, there has....to all the questions. No shootings in 2020, or when I kept my kids home into 2021, but I believe there were 4 or 5 lockdowns at school since the Covid lockdowns ended, all for gun issues. There were 2, I think, before Covid, when my older son started his sophomore year there. There were less lockdowns at the inner city high school, in the thick of a rough, rough, rough neighborhood where my oldest went for freshman year, than there have been at the suburban, sweet little neighborhood school they have attended for the last few years. End of school year last year involved the school going on lockdown, and cops and dogs swarming all the classrooms and then dragging out a few kids who had loaded guns on them.I can't imagine being so scared of my kids going to school that I didn't mind a mandatory lockdown. Has there ever been a shooting at your school? Or, in a neighboring school? I'm just trying to understand what circumstances have caused you to want your child to be locked down vs in school. It is a sad situation now in our country.
The lockdown of schools did not affect MY HOUSEHOLD in any negative ways, at all. It was good for all of us to get that time together, we learned how to learn AND teach differently, I got time to really spend with my kids, they got a hot, leisurely breakfast, nutritious lunch, no rushing out the door, and nobody having to do any lockdown drills - whether for practice or for real!
I know a lot of people did not get the same experience I did - whether because of parents that had to work outside the home, learning styles clashing, or no safe home to learn in.
All I am saying is, for my kids, my anxiety, my situation....yep, my kids being home on lockdown did not affect any of us negatively. And, I would love to have that same security each day. If my kid asked to go back to virtual learning (which we offer, 100% for anyone who wants it), I would allow it in a heartbeat.
I guess I find it weird if parents DON'T think it can happen where their kids are each day - maybe not dwell on it, but know that it is a possibility and not try and do everything they can to prevent it...