The conventional wisdom on these boards is to "buy where you want to stay."
With that said I will add my 2 cents. I think that's the best advice to avoid potential disappointments with not being able to stay where you prefer to stay (in this case BCV). However, others will suggest that if you have lots of flexibility as to when you can vacation then buying where you want to stay may not be a hugh issue (unless you want to stay at your preferred resort at Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter, the 4th of July, and certain long weekends).
I'm sure you will gets lots of good advice. One final point, only you know what's best for you so take the time to think it through.
Best wishes as you deliberate and mull this over.