I've always wondered why everyone always pushes the Disney hotels here. I can't really understand it, but to each their own. We save a TON of $ staying offsite. Personally I'd never be able to push myself to pay all of that extra $ for a room which I'll only use to sleep, just to be a little closer or have the "extra magic hours".
Having always stayed offsite until our last trip (Mat 2011) I would have agreed with you....
However the convince of it cannot be overstated. I've stayed offsite at hotels only 10 minutes away... that 10 min is more like 30 minutes best case, because you have to get a tram to your car (or monorail/boat, then tram). That's an extra hour a day you spend traveling.
Next is ease with children. As an adult it's much easier to continuously transition from park to tram to car to driving to hotel to room. Being able to walk out of a park hop on a shuttle (usually with minimal wait time, similar to the tram) and bam, you are at your hotel.
Nothing is worse than having a child fall asleep and then jostled awake 3 times in a row, by the time you get to your offsite hotel, the child is in a horrible mood... or maybe not.
Next is the 35% discount on the
DDP.
On our may trip we stayed at Pop Century, off season and with the discounts paid $1,806 for 5 days and 4 nights with DDP and tickets for 4. We ate $1,700~ of food in those 5 days. yes, we ate all table service and ordered dinners for lunch, lol.
Yes the values are small. We didn't spend any time in the room aside from sleeping, so it really didn't matter. The rooms were nice and clean. That's really all we cared about.
When we return in December we'll have to go Moderate or above because we will have 5ppl. I'd still do value if we could, but the only values are suites that are higher or the same as the moderates.
In the moderates it's going to cost us... even with the savings of the DDP, more than staying off site. You are right, we'd get more staying off site. For me the ease is worth it. Including saving an hour a day in travel related hassles to and from the park.
When I look at pricing like that I ask myself "How much is my time worth when I'm working?" In the case of the moderate resorts we're talking about an extra $100~ a day over staying off site. If the answer is close I then ask myself "How much is my time worth when I'm on vacation?"
Another nice thing about staying on site is easily being able to go back to the hotel during the day for a nap or dip in the pool.
I understand being on a budget, when my wife and I went to MK for our honey moon we were in a red roof inn and we were sharing pizza at Sunrise Terrace, lol.
I do think that you can save money at a value resort if you are smart about it. Especially when you consider parking taking $15 a day off your stay is a big amount when compared with the cost of the values.