WDW is like any other vacation destination--- there are many different variables, that different people value to varying degrees. Most people tend to have the same type of resort preferences, regardless of where the vacation is. Are you a family that normally will go for the higher priced room in order to have the convenience of being within walking distance of the major area attractions and fine dining spots; even if these rooms may be somewhat smaller than a hotel room 10 minutes away? Is a resort with full resort guest amenities like room service and valet parking important to you? Do you want to be a walk away from a wide variety of restuarants, nighttime entertainment etc? If these are the types of resorts you normally book for a vacation ; then I would strongly suggest you staying at either BCV, BWV or VWL.
If being in the heart of things is not a priority and you normally pick the resort that provides bigger room square footage at lower prices and also provides a more secluded and private atmosphere; with the trade off of it also requires a car or another form of transportation to reach the attractions, restaurants, etc. Then I would suggest OKW.
I have found WDW to be excatly like all vacation destinations everywhere. The closer you are to the main hub and the more the resort offers; then the higher the price will be and usually the smaller the accommondations will be.
It all depends on what your family wants on vacation and where your preferences and priorities lay.
I just recently booked a family vacation in SC. One of our trip destinations is Charleston, SC. Charleston like all major vacation destinations has accommondations that vary greatly in price, size, amenities AND most notably price and avialability, according to where it is located in relation to historic/downtown Charleston. To be in a resort located in historic Charleston is a much more pricy and a harder get resort, than a resort that is literally a 15 min drive from the main hub.
All WDW resorts are the same as Charleston and all vacation destinations. It all depends on what are your preferences, spending budget (whether it be cash or pts), etc.
Only your family knows what is right or what you desire for your family.
My suggestion would be to really research the various
DVC resort options and then pick the best match for your family and your desires.
Have a great trip!!!