Okay ladies, be honest..(sort of inspired by J'Lo threads)

[Michelle]

Not in the least! I have had many very pretty friends over the years, they are people too. If a beautiful woman has an ugly personality that's another story, but my friends are beautiful women inside and out.

 

[caitycaity]

"When you see/meet a girl (woman) who is very pretty, and has a really good body, do you want to not like her right away? Do you pick her apart more than you would if you were to meet an average looking woman? Things like, oh she's too skinny, she's stuck up, and so on....(but she hasn't really even said anything yet)"

nope.

 

[gemmie214]

Originally posted by babar
When you see/meet a girl (woman) who is very pretty, and has a really good body, do you want to not like her right away? Do you pick her apart more than you would if you were to meet an average looking woman? Things like, oh she's too skinny, she's stuck up, and so on....(but she hasn't really even said anything yet)

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Nope, I guess I am to self absorbed to notice

 

[Goofyposter]

EXCUSE ME...Ladies...*tap tap tap*....but it's IMPORTANT to remember...that what's IMPORTANT...is WHO you are...what you think...the degree of compassion, and passion is in your heart and mind!!...If you hold you're own worth to be worthwhile...you'll never need to feel envy for anyone else!

 

[helenabear]

Once again GP, you are here saying all the right things You are such a big-hearted guy and I am glad to see you around here. I agree with your thoughts... and while I wish I could feel better about myself at times, what you say always makes me feel just a little better

 

[Serena]

Yes, he does have a way with words doesn't he?

 

[JasonLyons]

you women are lying, you all hate sexy ladies

 

[babar]

thanks for your replies everyone. I'm glad everyone is honest.

I've had certain things said about me before people knew me, but then later they are always like "you know, I thought I wouldn't like you, but..." and I try (not always successfully, but usually) not to do that to other people because it's not nice first of all, and I find it wastes time when you could be making a really good friend!

Oh, and I also passed 1,000 posts on this thread!!!

Andrea

 

[Leota]

I don't think I do - I have women friends who are far prettier than I am & some who are not.
I do have a tendancy to initially judge some women as being "more together" than I am - Like because someone is beautiful & their hair is just so, their clothes are just so - then I assume everything in their life is just as flawless. I learned that it's not true, but I still catch myself doing that once in awhile....

 

[Mermaid02]

I used to be that way when I was in high school... I was such a brat.

Now I envy people with financial security..... I finally decided to stop doing that and to get off my buns and go back to school so I could contribute financially to the family.

And if I were J.Lo that picture Eros posted would be about 6'x4' and hung above my mantel!

 

[Disney Doll]

When I was young I used to do that. Now, I think I can admire beauty, either male or female, for what it is...beauty. If a beautiful woman has a nice eprsonality, then that is far more important anyway. I have a co-worker who has such a problem with her own self-image and sense of self-worth that she has to check out every situation she walks into to make sure that she is the "best looking" one there, she has to make sure that every man in the vicinity is paying attention strictly to her...it's sad really.

 

[ryanpatricksmom]

Never, but then again I'm always the most gorgeous, successful, intelligent one in the room.....

 

[Saffron]

No, never! I don't judge people on outward appearances (except for Arnold ). For me, it's all about how someone treats people and who they are, period.

 

[JAP]

I learned my lesson in Jr. High and High School. I became friends with some of the pretty girls in school b/c we had things in common and they were/are very nice.

I do not judge a book by its cover whether you are attractive or just average.