Okay, an update on *us*

[FOJMO]

Tammi,

Keep your faith. It will help keep you strong. I will keep you and your family in my prayers and know that you will all be all right.

VAL

 

[katerkat]

Oh, Tammi! {{{{{HUGS}}}}}} I don't have any words of advice or anything, but know that we are praying for you.

 

[Rajah]

Originally posted by Jeafl
I'm not sure I would be able to cope anywhere near as well as you seem to be.

(and similar comments from others)

Once this really hits, I'll probaby be a real mess, but it's still so surreal right now.

 

[binny]

(((Hugs))) my friend!


you have made some very profound discoveries.

You will be in our prayers!

 

[nativetxn]

Tammi, we are always here for you if you need us. I will continue to keep you and your mother in my prayers. Stay strong but reach out to us and others when you need a little extra strength--you will find it.

It is amazing how comforting the support and prayers of the DIS can be, I know I felt that comfort last July and it helped me through a terrible time in my life. I know it will help you, too.

{{{HUGS}}} my friend. {{{HUGS}}} for Von Drake, too. I'm so glad he is by your side.

 

[bsnyder]

My prayers continue for you and your family, Tammi!

Thanks for taking the time out to update us on how you're doing!

{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}}

 

[s&k'smom]

Rajah, I just caught up with your posts and wanted to send you my prayers. Take care and God bless.

 

[Keli]

Tammie,
I am not an eloquent person, in real life, nor on the boards so I feel inadequate in situations like these because the message I wish to convey cannot move from my heart to you very easily. But I wish to tell you that I have thought of you often and prayed for you and your family often also. I am very, very sorry for what you are going through.

 

[Gina]

Tammi ~

I just found out... I am so unbelievably sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers, of course, and while I know you have a ton of friends and family close by, please know you have one more you can call on if you need me, anytime. My mom still asks me about you all the time.

I'm so glad you have your DIS family here for support... everyone loves you very much.

{{hugs}}

-gina-

 

[Deb in IA]

Tammi, you sound like you are doing the right things. Continue to lean on others, family and friends in real life as well as on the Internet, for support and strength in the days, weeks, and months to come.

Grief and mourning are tricky. Despite all the pop psychology out there about this topic, most people react in very different and individual ways. Acceptance and closure do not always happen as the schedules dictate. You may have ups and downs for quite a while, and almost on a minute by minute basis. That's perfectly natural and acceptable.

I'm glad to see that you and your mother are not blaming yourselves for what happened. Even though there may have been 'warning signs', utimately, your dad was responsible for what happened. And yes, usually people who are determined to kill themselves are successful, at some point.

Again, I am very sorry for your loss. Please continue to come here if you need to talk . . .

 

[melk]

Tammi,
You've been in my thoughts since I read your post last night. I'm glad to hear that you have people to lean on and help and support you through this. Just try and take things one day at a time, you will get through this. Take care.

 

[KatelynnsAuntie]

Tammi,
You have been in my thoughts and prayers constantly. I'm glad to see you continually reaching out. Please know that I, like everyone else here, will be here for you in the days, weeks, and months to come.

Take care of yourself.

 

[tigercat]

tigercat

 

[Boots]

Prayers and HUGS always.

 

[lilboo]

Thank you for the moving update. I wish you peace.

 

[chell]

Hugs and prayers to you!

 

[BedKnobbery2]

Rajah,

I just wanted to let you know you are in my thoughts. My best to your and your family during this rough time.

Hugs,
BK

 

[Dopeygirl]

That was beautiful, Rajah. My prayers & thoughts continue to be with your family.