hey
I cant take credit for my abilities.....it was my late mother-in-law who passed on many years of wisdom on how to handle her son.....
1. whatever you buy, halve the price...he wont know

2. food & other things

covers all ills
3. smile, nod and let him assume it was his brilliant idea & that I wouldn't have thought it up in a million years

4. never ever talk money, politics, kids when he's hungry/tired/cold.
She was a fantastic lady, one of a kind....miss her so much, and I have her to thank not only for her words of wisdom but her fantastic son
She must have been right.....we are up to 21 years and counting