Ok I need your opinions

preshi

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The H and I still have a bank account together until Friday when I get paid...

Problem is: Last time I was in L.A. I went a little overboard and spent $500.00 so he told me I need to give him back the money. Which I was fine with as we needed to pay some bills. Well today I check the account online and he took out $340 dollars in San Francisco.

So that to me causes a problem. How come I have to pay back money I spent and he gets to take out money whenever he wants to? I just left him a message saying I'd give him the difference of the amounts...

Do you all think I am being fair or crazy?
 
I'd do the same -- give him the amount that is the difference. And get those separate bank accounts ASAP!
 
I think your decision is fair.
 
Sounds like a fair solution to me, pay the difference.
 

I don't understandy why you're having to pay back the money anyway. Weren't you 2 still together when you went to LA? To me, anything after you 2 separated that was spent by either of you should be paid back, but not anything before then. But then again, I'm sure if you told him that, you'd have an even bigger fight on your hands.
 
are you both putting the same amount of money into the account ? either way I am on yourside until you get ugly ;)
 
Sounds good to me too. {{{{HUGS}}}}
 
You were fair, he wasn't, why should you pay it back if he doesn't? Put the difference in, then don't add another cent! Get your own account!
 
Sounds more than fair, Preshi. :)
 














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