Oh poor thing! I will say though that the second child usually take at
least two weeks for the spots to show up, sometime it can take up to a month, if they show up at all. But it's the week before the spots that is the most contagious, and up until the last spot has crusted over...
I think Captain Jack had the same dilema last year (or possible the year before) but he ended up going anyway. Just a matter of whether your child is well enough, and if there are any risks to others that need to be summed up. I personally have cancelled a trip in similar circumstances, but only because my Dad had just finished chemo and hadn't had chicken pox before, so with out putting a dampner on things, it's the risk to others too that need to be weighed up.
Saying that though, Dad ans Step Mum went down with Swine flu instead on the last day of our trip two years ago and we had no option but to stay in the park, due to having no hotel and the Eurostar no leaving till 7.30. I hate to think of how many people he would have infected

but they stayed clear of people and took to sitting down on a bench for 8 hours and watching the world go by, as they didn't want to mix. But that situation couldn't be helped and someone must have given it to them anyway!
Fingers crossed everything will work out, I think you will be ok and have a great trip, you have enough time still to watch for spots and DD will be spot free - just take some piriton and ibuprofen with you, but as you may have found out, it's the perios before the spots come out that is the worse for feeling under the weather
