Oh Baby!

[milkabum]

Why would someone post a lie about their friend having a baby?

Anyways, I say adoption. I mean she obviouisly isn't ready for a baby, and I don't completely agree with abortion. Pray to god she didn't catch any STD's because obviously she was unprotected. Good luck to her, hugs!

 

[DramaQueen]

i kinda thought what VolleyballQt07 that too. I mean, this sounds absolutley INSANE to me!

a 13 years old pregnant!!!
when i was 13, i was still playing Barbie with my sister (yeah, I'll admit it!)
I don't mean to impose my values on anyone but a 13 year old should NOT be having sex!

That being said, I'd really like to say that this must be REALLY scary for her.
As stated before, she should probably get tested to make sure, that can be VERY scary and nervewracking but it needs to be done!!
And when she finds out the results go from there.
Take things one step at a time, she needs to REALLY think about what she is going to do.

I really hope that she is NOT pregnant. And I hope that she will think about what she has done and WAIT until she is ready to have sex.

Prayers & PD. Caitlin

 

[kjkcool]

My friend's biological mom had her when she was 14.Her mom had another kid a year later,my friend's sister,when she was 15. Then at 16 and 17,she had my friend's other sister and her brother. They lived with her grandma,but their basic needs were barley met.Bothe of her mom's boyfriends,the dads, were in prison.My friend's grandma really wanted to make it work I think,but she finally one day relized it just wasn't possible to keep them,and asked her mother to put them up for adoption.The mother reluctantly did so,and my friend and her siblings were bounced from foster home to foster home,sometimes all together,but mostly apart.Some of the foster people drank and were terrible to them.One day,a couple who was told they couldn't have kids adopted them all together. My friend had a hard life.I'm extremly glad that her mother didn't have an abortion and my friend is too.I think of course my friend's mother should have put all of her kids up for adoption in the first place,(and used protection,but not going there....).
I just want all of you people who say she should definitly get an abortion should think.I could have never gotten my best friend in the world if her mother had had one.

 

[ktbutterfly2011]

Question for you and everyone else who's posted on this thread.

How do we know she's not making this up?




Anyways, If she IS pregnant, like others said, she needs to tell her mom. No ifs ands ors or buts about it. Her parents need to know the situation. And if she isn't pregnant, she should still tell her mom because if it was unprotected sex, then she could have gotten a disease. Either way, help her tell her mom to get her tested for sure. And if it is a false alarm, tell her to not consider sex until marrige............

Why does it even matter? I mean really... if you give your advice and it turns out this is just a big scam how will it hurt you? Well anyways thats just MHO.

I can't give any better advice than the advice already gave.

 

[VolleyballQt07]

Why does it even matter? I mean really... if you give your advice and it turns out this is just a big scam how will it hurt you? Well anyways thats just MHO.

I can't give any better advice than the advice already gave.

Again people..........I was JUST asking! Sorry.

 

[Tink-a-boo]

What if you told your mother about the situation? Maybe she could help you with your friend?

 

[EeyoreFan1]

How do we know that ANY of us aren't making ANYTHING up?

I'm sure we all make things up. Its just the web for you.

 

[hidmickey:myantidrug]

Again people..........I was JUST asking! Sorry.

Hey, don't worry about it. I was thinking the same thing. Mine was based purely on the fact that the doctor couldn't tell her. Any credable (sp) doctor is able to determine pregnancy.

 

[Adi12982]

So what ended up happening? Was it a false alarm or . . . ??

 

[Loves Disney]

It is the parent's responsibility to care for their children until the children are capable of supporting themselves. Every parent makes that vow at the moment the baby is concieved. If your friend's mother feels it necessary to kick her daughter out at 13 years old...well then, I don't know what to think lol. Her parent's should be the ones to help her get through this. If she is pregnant, there is no use in crying over spilled milk, it is not her parent's job at that point to tell her how wrong she is and how she ruined her life and all that jive. It becomes their job to care for her and help her through this emotional bomb.

What I have to say as far as advice goes has already been said over and over again on this thread lol.

13 is WAY too young to have a baby...it's a pity she might be pregnant.

 

[catycatcat4]

Hey, don't worry about it. I was thinking the same thing. Mine was based purely on the fact that the doctor couldn't tell her. Any credable (sp) doctor is able to determine pregnancy.

maybe shes not and the doctor wanted too scare her out of doing it any more

 

[VolleyballQt07]

So what ended up happening? Was it a false alarm or . . . ??

Yeah.....what happened?

 

[BabyPiglet]

maybe shes not and the doctor wanted too scare her out of doing it any more

I highly doubt that. He might have done that if we really really wanted a lawsuit on his hands.

 

[_tinkerbell_]

ok i know there are probably people who are going to hate me for saying this, but i think she needs to tell her parents and get an abortion. tell only her parents and the neighbors parents. having a kid will ruin her life, if it doesnt kill her.

i understand what you mean and i know this is terrible thing to happen to anyone in their teens (let alone a 13 year old) but i think too many people stereotype other people. just because people say "she wont cope" and "it will ruin her life" it doesnt mean that "everyone" will be the same.
My friends sister was pregnant at the age of 12 yeah thats terrible but she managed. she still went to school with the help of her mother and then went to college. she is now a teacher and has built her life around her child. i know some parents cannot stay home and look after grandchildren. but im just saying that it sometimes can work out. xxx

 

[BabyPiglet]

i understand what you mean and i know this is terrible thing to happen to anyone in their teens (let alone a 13 year old) but i think too many people stereotype other people. just because people say "she wont cope" and "it will ruin her life" it doesnt mean that "everyone" will be the same.
My friends sister was pregnant at the age of 12 yeah thats terrible but she managed. she still went to school with the help of her mother and then went to college. she is now a teacher and has built her life around her child. i know some parents cannot stay home and look after grandchildren. but im just saying that it sometimes can work out. xxx

?Why do people say she won't cope? Because for goodness sakes she is still a child. Barely a teenager. Why should she have to plan her life around a child. I have a free and open fututre. At this point I can do whatever I want. Even if she did have an abortion, her soul would be scarred for life. She will never be the same. You're acting like it's no big deal!?! She might have a baby growing inside of her, when she is just a baby.

I reccomend putting it up for adoption.

 

[shakebear]

Although I am firmly against abortion, this girl does not really seem to have a choice if she is pregnant. No one who is 13 years old is emotionally or physically ready to have a child. By physically I mean it will probably kill her, or the child, or both or have the child be born prematurely and sick. I am not at all recommending abortion, or am I pro-abortion, but I don't see much of a choice for this girl.

If she hasn't already, she needs to find out A.S.A.P. if she is, in fact pregnant she has some major decisions to make, and she absolutely needs to tell her parents.

Adoption is an option though , she should consider that if she is considering having the child. But, if she wants to have this child and raise it, that's her decision.

But overall, my prayers go to her and I hope she is alright.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Although I am firmly against abortion, this girl does not really seem to have a choice if she is pregnant. No one who is 13 years old is emotionally or physically ready to have a child. By physically I mean it will probably kill her, or the child, or both or have the child be born prematurely and sick. I am not at all recommending abortion, or am I pro-abortion, but I don't see much of a choice for this girl.

If she hasn't already, she needs to find out A.S.A.P. if she is, in fact pregnant she has some major decisions to make, and she absolutely needs to tell her parents.

But overall, my prayers go to her, I hope she is alright.

Okay, yes but oh nevermind...

 

[Loves Disney]

I don't think anyone can tell someone to get an abortion. That is such as sensitive decision that many people are against.

 

[crazy2beautiful]

Things like this happen way too often.
I'm in high school, and I can't even count how many girls are walking around pregnant or they've already had babies. One of the most recent girls is just a sophmore now. It's way too early.

 

[Mickey1122]

Things like this happen way too often.
I'm in high school, and I can't even count how many girls are walking around pregnant or they've already had babies. One of the most recent girls is just a sophmore now. It's way too early.

It's shocking to hear that it happens so much at your school. It has never happened here.