@Rusty2rules
Hahaha. So, I originally booked the 23rd bc my first two preferences weren't available. The 25th and 20th. Now they both are! They must have opened them up to more people. So final answer, I'm doing the 20th. Lol. It's 8pm and not 9pm which helps with very young kids. Plus the 21st is a sleep in day.
Plus now we won't have two dessert parties two nights in a row.