We are paying...just in a different way. We pay "rack rate" for the rooms, which means we get no discount like some other travelers who have taken advantage of other discounts such as 20,25,or 30% off their room rate. I'm paying full price for my room. Some people actually think that "free dining" is the more expensive way to go. Since they think that they can pay out of pocket (OOP) for much less than the cost of dining for each person. It's very nice for me as I'm one of those who want everything paid for before I leave to get rid of any unexpected expenses.
Still confused on why you can't get "free dining?" Is it a US only promotion? I book all myself online...maybe you should look into doing all yourself.
Regardless, hope your trip to the states and to WDW is awesome, and if I'm setting beside you with "free dining" you won't throw something towards my table!
Happy TRAILS!