With all of the "It's so crowded I can't see the pavement! No it's not! The tumbleweeds are blowing!" debates here, I thought I'd chip in with something my husband and I noticed on our most recent visit to the Magic Kingdom.
Previously, we'd been to Disney with our kids after a long period Disney hiatus. We wanted to cover most attractions, with certain ones being must-dos. And, our kids were all under 7.
Visiting Disney with just me and the husband, with no imperative experiences, was a whole different ballgame. We realized as we were waiting a bit for a tram to finally take us back to the parking lot that the same level of waits and "crowdedness" would have been perceived VERY differently if we had had 3 little kids to corral and if we had been (as on previous visits) trying to be sure we hit certain attractions. While we were waiting my husband actually started seeing how many different jokes he could make about how different the crowd density of that visit would have seemed had the kids been with us.
When the FP return line backs up b/c the Magic Band people's bands aren't working and the CMs are clustering around the visitor's iPhone (for whatever reason) and not letting anyone else through, it would be easy to get
if you had other things you really wanted to do and little people who were getting unmanageable (it's not just autistic kids who can have long line issues). But if those things aren't an issue, you can just laugh at the folly of the situation and enjoy the surroundings and the people watching.
So, although it's obvious that most days in the fall won't be the same as Disney in mid-July, I do think we should show a little grace to our fellow Disney fans who may have different responsibilities and trip goals.
Previously, we'd been to Disney with our kids after a long period Disney hiatus. We wanted to cover most attractions, with certain ones being must-dos. And, our kids were all under 7.
Visiting Disney with just me and the husband, with no imperative experiences, was a whole different ballgame. We realized as we were waiting a bit for a tram to finally take us back to the parking lot that the same level of waits and "crowdedness" would have been perceived VERY differently if we had had 3 little kids to corral and if we had been (as on previous visits) trying to be sure we hit certain attractions. While we were waiting my husband actually started seeing how many different jokes he could make about how different the crowd density of that visit would have seemed had the kids been with us.
When the FP return line backs up b/c the Magic Band people's bands aren't working and the CMs are clustering around the visitor's iPhone (for whatever reason) and not letting anyone else through, it would be easy to get
if you had other things you really wanted to do and little people who were getting unmanageable (it's not just autistic kids who can have long line issues). But if those things aren't an issue, you can just laugh at the folly of the situation and enjoy the surroundings and the people watching. So, although it's obvious that most days in the fall won't be the same as Disney in mid-July, I do think we should show a little grace to our fellow Disney fans who may have different responsibilities and trip goals.

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