Now I remember why I don't read posts over here.

I'll try to pull Ray's thread back on track, because what is beginning to happen to it is exactly what he is referring to.

Ray, remember that this is an internet bulletin board. You can choose to look or not look at whatever you wish. Personally, I choose to look at those things which I feel will add something to my experience here in a positive way. If I see a post written by someone who has, in my past experience, been one to post negative or insulting things, I choose not to look at that person's post. Perhaps I'll be missing out on some wonderful thing they have to say, but that's the risk I am willing to take. That isn't to say that everyone doesn't have the right to post here, because they do. But I also have the right to choose to read what I want, and not read what I don't want, and it is a right I exercise, some days very frequently, other days not so frequently.

As to the moderators, I think they do a good job of giving a fairly long leash before the lock a thread, but once the thread becomes a venue for insults, name-calling, sarcasm and the like, it is time to shut it down.

In many ways the DIS is like a family. I do not tolerate insults, sarcasm, name-calling, and disrespect from members of my real family, so I am certainly not going to tolerate from members of my DIS internet family.

Ray, you are a nice man. Pop in every once in a while, scan the thread titles, and pick the ones that will uplift or entertain you. Use your "Ignore" feature and your "back" button and I promise you the CB will be a much more pleasant place for you!
 
Ray, you are a genuinely sweet and caring person. I think it is your SENSITIVITY that is getting you hurt here.

I, for one, really enjoy seeing you here (since I hang out here more than any of the other boards). But to deal with the "hurtful" posts, I think you just have to develop a really thick skin. Or else use a lot of these: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:



"Evil" and "vile" are strong words. I truly don't think anyone here is really evil or vile. Some of us have strong opinions, some repeatedly bring up certain themes (the DEATH PENALTY comes to mind ;) ), and some even use BIG CAPITAL LETTERS . We come from all walks of life, and certainly have widely varying emotions, opinions, backgrounds, religious faiths, socio-economic status, etc, etc, etc. But vile and evil? I don't think so . . .

Anyway, Ray, I'm sorry you were hurt, and I hope you come back . . .
 
Not everyone gets off on being a being a hypocritical Christian with Prayers and PD for all.

I'm thinking that is an example of one of the things that upsets Ray so much. I sure don't think it was a very nice thing to say.

Just because I have never met a person, doesn't mean I can't pray for them, or hurt for them. I do. Regularly. Maybe because I can empathize. I don't know, but I certainly don't "get off" on it. It's just who I am.

I'm also sure Robin didn't mention names, so I'm not sure at all why you assume she is speaking of you.
 
I have little sympathy for anyone around here who calls fellow members EVIL:( :( . Hitler did the same thing with the Jews of Germany. It's an old trick of the ruthless and intolerant. We saw the same behavior directed at all of us on Sept 11,2001 :( :( :( .........
 

I pretty much have stayed out of this incident and oh boy am I glad.

I do have to say one thing about this thread.
I find it extremely offensive and self righteous to call anyone evil and vile here. We are all people with good parts and bad. We all have our weaknesses and strengths. We all care deeply for our friends have subjects we are passionate about.

just because you don't believe in another groups "doctrine", doesn't mean they are any less of a person than you are.
People here get labelled quite easily and lumped into neat little groups and boxes. Unfortunately, life isn't that simple. People aren't that simple.

I think it's about damn time we all sit back and read what each other is trying to say instead of automatically going on the defensive because of the poster's association.
 
Gee Ray maybe your right. Think I'll go make some beef stew.

Strip the desk I'm working on and return tomorrow.

Pixie Dust for our CB'ers today.
 
TLK very nicely said. I am going to ask that everyone step back and take a deep breathe. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion on things, but as this is an internet board, there are guidelines to follow, and one of them is refraining from personal attacks...Just a warning, please refrain from them here or anywhere on these boards(actually refrain from them everywhere, as your lives maybe happier that way), they serve no good purpose to anyone..


So please chill out and carry on.
 
Oh, and to clarify, my definition of evil when I have used it on these boards is not personal in nature. It has to do with the acts of Satan in the world and his presence.

I pray for those affected by evil also. Not hypocritcally.
 
Wow, look at what happens when you mention the word evil...

It's like throwing holy water!!

 
jmho...take it or leave it.

no one here that i have seen is purely evil.

we are however all human, and ALL humans at one time or another have done "evil" things. does that mean that the person is evil? devil spawn? no, not in my book. just that they are human and they are fighting the battle between good and evil that imho all humans fight every day.

no HUMAN is completely evil or completely good.

i don't like classifying people as evil or good. everyone is just a human, and their actions may be evil or good, or neither.

jmho.
 
It is possible that some poeple just have evil intentions behind what they post.
 
Originally posted by A kid at heart
It is possible that some poeple just have evil intentions behind what they post.

I couldn't agree more...
 
Originally posted by caitycaity


no HUMAN is completely evil or completely good.


Well said, caitycaity:D :D :D .

Unfortunately you have just sacrificed any chance for membership in the DIS HIGH AND MIGHTY AND SANCTIMONIOUS club:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: ...........
 
or it could be possible that the person didn't have evil intentions at all. only that person knows what is in their heart.
 
Merriam Webster description of evil:morally reprehensible : SINFUL, WICKED <an evil impulse> b : arising from actual or imputed bad character or conduct

Evil IS what evil does.

It's not necessarily an insult. Some people like being evil. I used to be one of them, believe me I know!

When I said it I had no idea how it would blow up but it did so be it. If it hurt I'd ask myself why.
 
"Unfortunately you have just sacrificed any chance for membership in the DIS HIGH AND MIGHTY AND SANCTIMONIOUS club"

uhhh, i think i gave that up a long time ago. :p

i would be content to just have people who don't like other people just ignore each other though, instead of all the baiting on both sides. :)
 
Something to think about...

Those who are always made to be a villain don't always have bad intentions. Or even sometimes for that matter

And those who are always made to be a martyr don't necessarily have the most pure and innocent of intentions either.
 
"If it hurt I'd ask myself why. "

personally, i am not hurt by it, so i guess i won't have to. :)

i was merely stating my opinion(and i believe i did it in a respectful way) that evil was a strong word to be used for anyone here.

at any rate, back to work for me. have a good one. :sunny:
 














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