We are going Nov 11-18. I'm taking 2 adult friends for their first time and tried to find a less crowded time. From my research before booking, I found that Jersey week is the week before - Nov 4-11. F & WF ends on the 11th, so we'll miss that crowd - I think the soap opera weekend is that same weekend at MGM. Yes, Monday is Veteran's Day, but I'm hoping most people are leaving that day and we'll begin touring parks that day. I was also trying to avoid Thanksgiving week.
Hope this helps!