scary on your c-section, but so glad you made it through with two healthy happy kiddos! My sister has a one year old, just turned one and just told us at Christmas she is preggo again!
i've done plenty of large family trips, so i know how frustrating it can be to work around everyone's schedule and preferences. Sometimes you just have to move forward and if they can come great, if not, too bad. otherwise, you end up waiting around for everyone! lol
We've only done the dining plan twice, it was free both times. One time was back when they included an appetizer per person for the sit down meal. it was WAY too much food. Then in 2009 we had FD in early December for our party of 15. It was great, but again, I almost felt like we were eating all the time and with a party of 15, the meals were NOT quick. We often were there for 2 hours, because it took so long for the CMs to figure out all the checks, since we were in 5 separate rooms. It was just a pain. Now that we bought DVC, we obviously can't get FD anymore (at least when staying on points). I've considered buying it, but we ended up getting APs and TIW instead and used that. I'll be doing the numbers for our November trip to see what makes sense, since our APs expired now and TIW did too. Although they just announced DVC members can purchase TIW without having an AP, so that is good. Last year after running the numbers, it was cheaper for us to use TIW over paying for the DP. I even picked out what ew would order at each place and did the calculations.

