Been a busy few days....
Real quick to answer some questions...
Parking AT the port, which is the most convenient is about $120 per car for a 7-day cruise. If you are looking to cut some costs,
http://parkcruise.com/ offers parking for $6/day with a free shuttle and is very popular with DISers
The three popular pre-cruise hotels are The Country Inn & Suites, The Residence Inn and The Radisson.
I have stayed in all three and by far, my favourite is the Residence Inn. Great pool, great rooms (small suite for about the same cost as a normal room at the Radisson, depending on season and when you book it), and free hot breakfast!
Mind you, the most popular is the Radisson and I know Mike & Robin love the sleep number beds they offer. (Not all rooms have the sleep number beds, I believe though so make sure to double check that when you make your ressie!) They do have a great pool but I thought the resort was just okay and you can get a room that is REALLY far from the pool and lobby so make sure to request something close to the pool or front of hotel if that is important to you!
All of these hotels offer a park & cruise rate, which basically offers free parking included in your room rate. The Radisson used to offer a free shuttle but I think they charge for it now. The other option is Art's Shuttle, which has gotten good reviews on the DIS.
Hope that helps!
Gotta run my kid to swim lessons