Nothing to look forward to....

Discussion in 'Coping and Compassion' started by dyna, Aug 17, 2018.

  1. dyna

    dyna DIS Veteran

    Jun 30, 2005
    DH has been ill for 2 yrs. 1 thing then another. Life is pretty bleak right now at my house as there is no hope of it ever getting better.

    We can not do any of the things we enjoyed doing for years. Not even going out to eat with out worrying what it will do to DH's health this time.

    I have been fighting vertigo for a month unable to drive.
  2. Tiki_Sara

    Tiki_Sara Mouseketeer

    Mar 9, 2018
    Didn't want to read and run. Do you have anyone you can talk to in real life who might be more up on what's happening with you and your husband? Who can support you in practical ways? Perhaps you have a friend with a car who can take you places and help out?

    Life sounds tough for you right now, Dyna. Posting was the right thing to do, sometimes just writing it out helps
  3. Shanti

    Shanti Momketeer

    Nov 29, 2015
    I'm so sorry you're having a hard time. For now, though, at least you have each other. :grouphug:
  4. mommasita

    mommasita DIS VETERAN Moderator

    Aug 3, 2004
    I’m sorry for what you are going through right now. I truly do understand rough times. Talking to a counsellor is tge ONLY thing keeping me sane. Is there someone you can speak to, I really think this so important.

    It makes you realize what you DO have, and what you Can do, rather than the opposite. It’s not at all easy for me to say, please believe me, it’s a struggle, but it helps to talk and be heard, and get some sound advice.

    I’m thinking of your family. Please let us know how you are all coping. Gentle hugs
  5. java

    java <font color=darkorchid>I am embracing the Turkey B

    Jan 18, 2005
    Hugs dyna. Feeling hopeless is a scary place to be. Try to take care of you. Love yourself again. I’m sorry. I don’t have a magic wand but I could use it too. Just know you are not alone.

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