Im sorry about your friends, that’s just terrible. And I’m sorry that you’ve had that amount of recent tragedy to deal with.
On the
DVC topic, I’m not going to stop going to Disney without DVC, I’m just going to utilize other methods of booking cheap stays until/if the DVC math is better than the non-DVC math. We just did a trip in a family suite, we’re doing off site at
Disneyland this fall, and we have a Deluxe WDW stay booked for January on a not-publicly-available rate that we have legitimate access to, and all three of those trips will make us very happy.
For me, owning DVC would be a choice made for financially practical reasons, not to satisfy a desire, and if it never happens, it means I am happier without it. I have gathered reading these boards that that is unusual, but it’s why I haven’t bought. Our 3 trips this year are “cheaper” than owning DVC at current resale prices and our experience isn’t degradated enough to justify spending to close the gap. For someone who has different values I’m sure the calculation is different.