So sorry you had a hard time! I experienced the same thing, staying on site at AKL , my FP day opened up on Tuesday....we only have a 5 day trip, and only could try for AK on Monday Nov 13. 5 people. I logged on exactly at 5 am my time (7am WDW) and nothing! Sad to say, I am very glad i bought the VIP AK ultimate tour and am guaranteed 5 FP to the popular things : FOP, Navi River ride, EE, Dinosaur, Safari, Rivers of Lights with the tour! that was my saving grace, albeit expensive! I think the only people getting FP are the ones who have longer trips and have 7,8, 9 and 10 days to look for FP!!
It was worth the money for the tour so I can experience these things without the long waits and because our trip is so short, worth not stressing about losing out on a FP for FOP!