Ok, it's a yucky, rainy day here so I figured, may as well get the budget rolling, here. What works for me (to y'all who are new) is to give myself categories of discretionary spending and try and stay within those limits.
Since our mortgage is the same every month, there's no point in listing it because there's nothing I can do to change it or reduce it, short of selling the house. Same with the DVC dues, so they're not on here either.
What has plagued me is the 100 trip to Target, like Sioustone first posted when she created the "no buy" concept. So now, I can still go to Target and come out with 100 worth of crap, but that means I can't buy anything else because I exceeded my budget for crap (also known as "personal care" in my list

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It's worked really, really well for me so far (with the exception of December, I just wasn't good enough with anticipatory spending to keep it together for Xmas-it was still better than the last 3 years spending, in that month, however!). So, here's my discretionary spending for the month of January, 2008!
Gas (180) I'm debating on whether or not to leave this as discretionary since it comes out the same every month...
Groceries (600) my personal bugaboo. This month I'm trying pre-planned dinner menus so I don't end up staring at the fridge at 5:30 and ending up running to Publix for a rotisserie chicken because I can't think of what to cook.
Dining out (50) we like cheap eats like Subway and Shane's Rib Shack...
Clothing (50)
DD9's birthday party (300) That's worst case scenario, but probably accurate

we love birthdays!
Personal care (50) I can never stay under 50, we'll call this KJJ's "ugly month"
Church (100) this may be higher, our church is putting the thumbscrews to us to do 'commitment pledges'. While logically I understand that they need to do predictive spending too, emotionally I'm like, we're already tithing when we go, isn't that enough?
Home repair (100) 40 year old house, 'nuff said...
Auto maint (25) want to keep my minivan for 10 years, it's 4 1/2, so I treat her well.
Total: $1455. It's always the totalling up all the categories that makes me go "oof"!!!

Still, I know if I didn't budget, it would be worse. My credit cards in the past have made that plain. Also, I've been using just my debit card now, that hurts way more than amex...
Good luck with 2008, everyone! I'm saving for a new garage on my house!
