New TTC Thread

[cherbear]

E that sounds painful!!

Thank you for being optimistic, but I'm sure she would have shown her ugly face by now if I wasn't on the prometrium supplement.

I really hate having low progesterone. At least if I didn't have to be on the meds, I could wait for AF like normal people.
I'm requesting a blood test Friday, because I hate this stupid peeing on sticks thing lately and it's not as accurate. I got another BFN this morning (on FRER)

 

[WDWorBUST]

Anna ~ So sorry bout the IBS but so glad you are on meds. DH had that and it is very uncomfortable. The meds were a God send!

Cher ~ It's not over yet chickie! Not until the ugly witch shows her self There is still a chance!

soontobewed ~ Safe travels!

Went to the Dr yesterday and had a piece of my tongue cut out! I was ok in the beginning but now I have a bruise on my tongue too! I had to call the drs office last night though to make sure I could take the amoxicillin and the tylenol with codine! I'm cleared to take them both so I will bring in the perscriptions this afternoon so now I am drinking my decafe iced coffee and trying to figure out what I can have for lunch that is soft. Heck at least i'll lose a couple of pounds! There's always a silver lining!

Wow...that sounds miserable! Wishing you a speedy recovery.

E that sounds painful!!

Thank you for being optimistic, but I'm sure she would have shown her ugly face by now if I wasn't on the prometrium supplement.

I really hate having low progesterone. At least if I didn't have to be on the meds, I could wait for AF like normal people.
I'm requesting a blood test Friday, because I hate this stupid peeing on sticks thing lately and it's not as accurate. I got another BFN this morning (on FRER)

I'm sorry. I'm sure taking the progesterone every month is such a pain. I just started taking it this cycle because I asked about low progesterone possibly being the problem before so he just prescribed it. Of course now I don't know how they determine whether or not I would make enough on my own. Keep us posted though!

 

[cherbear]

They actually do a progesterone blood draw on 7 days past the IUI (or ovulation, if you're not an IUI patient) when it is supposed to peak. So if it's too low then they will prescribe the supplement.

However, I haven't been able to get to their office on 7 dpiui these past few cycles, so they've sent me to Quest Diagnostics (but around 4 dpiui because Quest takes so long to get results back). So next time I am going to try my best to make it to the office and get my blood drawn at 7 dpiui so that it's accurate. (And of course the RE will get the results back same-day and tell me whether I need the progesterone)

 

[Leger13]

Anna ~ sorry about the IBS. Hope the meds help and you feel better soon!

WDW ~ I hope your #'s keep doubling! FX!

I'm taking it orally. "supposedly" there's less side effects with taking it ******lly, but Carla still seemed to have a lot of the same side effects and she took it ******lly (Leger13)

Yup! I had pretty much the same side effects on the suppositories as it seems like ppl do on the oral meds. sucks!

Anna ~ So sorry bout the IBS but so glad you are on meds. DH had that and it is very uncomfortable. The meds were a God send!

Cher ~ It's not over yet chickie! Not until the ugly witch shows her self There is still a chance!

soontobewed ~ Safe travels!

Went to the Dr yesterday and had a piece of my tongue cut out! I was ok in the beginning but now I have a bruise on my tongue too! I had to call the drs office last night though to make sure I could take the amoxicillin and the tylenol with codine! I'm cleared to take them both so I will bring in the perscriptions this afternoon so now I am drinking my decafe iced coffee and trying to figure out what I can have for lunch that is soft. Heck at least i'll lose a couple of pounds! There's always a silver lining!

omg that sounds painful! Glad you can take all your meds tho. Good for you finding the positive in that situation. Sooooo when are you going to do an HPT? How many days past IUI are you?

 

[esbrick]

omg that sounds painful! Glad you can take all your meds tho. Good for you finding the positive in that situation. Sooooo when are you going to do an HPT? How many days past IUI are you?

I won't lie. It's definately uncomfortable. But at least is is done and over and i will have the results of the biopsy monday or tuesday. I just didn't expect that the DR was going to take out such a large piece! Sheesh!

I'm not supposed to HPT until next Saturday, the 20th, but not sure how long that's gonna last. I'll definately try to hold out until at least the 18th or so. I'd like to be with Mike when I test. I usually know by the Tuesday or Wednesday before though. As of today I am 4 dpiui.

How're you?

 

[KiKi Mouse]

I'm going to ask my doctor about taking it orally. It's just so messy. On the days I have bootcamp I wait until afterwards to "take" it....but out of 3 days I have forgotten it 2. Of course I take one in the morning and one at night so I think I'm okay....and my level said I was....but it would be much easier orally. My doc did say it's more expensive in pill form.....but as horrible as it sounds I don't care. I maxed out my flex plan in anticipation of IUI and having a baby .....only it has happened quicker than I thought it would (WoooooHOOOOO - I am so not complaining) and my DH's insurance is great - it will only cost me $250 to have the baby (Maybe - $500 - I'm not sure if the baby will be charged the same copay....sometimes they are sometimes they aren't). So far I have spent around $1000 - had to have a crown and then of course multiple copays - but that leaves almost $2000 I have available for medical expenses this year.

I took it in pill form but not orally. It was messy and made me tired. I had to take it on my lunch hour at work so that I was able to sit back and let it do it's job.
I took it for 14 weeks and when I went off of it I was paranoid.
At night my DH called them my tapioca balls...LOL

 

[RachaelRol]

Hi ladies!!

I have to tell you I tried replying twice to this thread this week and both times it crashed! Don't know if it was because I quoted so many of you and the reply was really, really long or if it was just karma since I was "disin'" instead of working. I'm trying again without quotes this time.

First of all, congratulations WDW! It was about time we got some good news around here!

Sorry about af Anna and that you aren't feeling well.

Cher- Thank you so much for sharing your feelings on using a donor. I wondered how you felt but was scared to ask. I hate that you got a BFN, I hope you just tested a bit early and am holding out hope and praying for you.

E- Yikes about your tongue! I am really hoping you get great, happy news on the 20th!

TandT- I am so sorry someone like that is in your life. Really, just stay away from her. I believe that every action has a consequence and one day she will regret using abortion as birth control. I'm all for choice but accountability too.

D&D and TandT- THank you for sharing your therapy experience with me. I am seriously thinking about it and it helps to know I am not alone.

I am going to try to submit this now and will cry if it does not work!!!

 

[RachaelRol]

What the heck?! I just wrote another reply to this thread and it kicked me out. Are one of you kicking me off?

 

[RachaelRol]

Take 4!

I just wanted to tell you that we have our next RE appointment on Friday where we'll learn more about my crappy ovaries and possible options. I took the day off and will really give the donor egg, adoption and do nothing further some more thought over the weekend. I'm definitely going to try therapy regardless our decision because either way it will be a tough one.

I had a good week, a lot less crying, able to sleep (without Theraflu nighttime) and focus at work. There were moments when everything just felt right with just DH, DS and me this past week. DS plays basketball on two teams and scored for both teams. I was that crazy mom jmping up and down on the bleachers. Oh, how I hope you all get to have these very joyous and proud moments.

I also want you to know I shared my news with both of my sisters who were so very supportive. I felt so much better after talking with them. We are really close and keeping this part of my life a secret really sucked. I actually feel badly for not trusting them enough to be supportive.

But most of all, I want yo all to know how very much I appreciate all of your support and friendship; even though its through the Disboards. It truly does mean the world to me and I pray you all overcome your TTC obstacles.

 

[cherbear]

Rachel that was just so eloquently said. That is SO great that you told your sisters and that they are so supportive. My sister is only 21 and very immature for a 21 at that. So needless to say I can't really talk to her about it. We haven't told any family what's going on. Except my cousin who happens to be my BFF.

Oh, and I'm definitely not kicking you off. LOL Sorry you've had so much trouble posting here lately.

I hope that I have those proud moments one day too. Congrats to your DS for scoring so much!! I think the therapy is a great idea, and I hope this weekend gives you a relaxing and calm feeling about everything. Any news about decreased fertility is just such a tough pill to swallow. But I know you will persevere.

 

[Kronk's girl]

Good morning everyone!

Rachel- that was very well said, and I am glad your sisters have been supportive, and now they can be there for you as you decide what the best next step is for you . And congrats to your DS- those are exactly the types of moments I am hoping and praying to experience someday!

My husband and I decided to skip the allergy meds and stay in the game- so I hope it is worth it this time! Haha. DH has another appointment to get a SA next week because the doctor decided he wanted one more. I might cancel and re-schedule it though because it might land right on ovulation time and I don't want it to mess that up- so we'll wait and see.

Crossing my fingers for Esbrick and even Cherbear still (you aren't officially out yet right?). Are those the only ones in the TWW?

I hope this is another lucky month for us- let's keep the ball rolling after WDW's BFP!

 

[Leger13]

I won't lie. It's definately uncomfortable. But at least is is done and over and i will have the results of the biopsy monday or tuesday. I just didn't expect that the DR was going to take out such a large piece! Sheesh!

I'm not supposed to HPT until next Saturday, the 20th, but not sure how long that's gonna last. I'll definately try to hold out until at least the 18th or so. I'd like to be with Mike when I test. I usually know by the Tuesday or Wednesday before though. As of today I am 4 dpiui.

How're you?

oooo I will hope hope hope that you get some good news on Mon or Tues AND on the 20th (if you don't POAS early that is). Either way, please keep us posted on everything!

I've been doing alright. This cycle isn't moving as fast as the last one it seems. Last time the time passed so quickly. Now it's at a snail's pace. I'm only on day 3 of my clomid. 2 more days! I'll be going in for a follie check next Wednesday.

Take 4!

I just wanted to tell you that we have our next RE appointment on Friday where we'll learn more about my crappy ovaries and possible options. I took the day off and will really give the donor egg, adoption and do nothing further some more thought over the weekend. I'm definitely going to try therapy regardless our decision because either way it will be a tough one.

I had a good week, a lot less crying, able to sleep (without Theraflu nighttime) and focus at work. There were moments when everything just felt right with just DH, DS and me this past week. DS plays basketball on two teams and scored for both teams. I was that crazy mom jmping up and down on the bleachers. Oh, how I hope you all get to have these very joyous and proud moments.

I also want you to know I shared my news with both of my sisters who were so very supportive. I felt so much better after talking with them. We are really close and keeping this part of my life a secret really sucked. I actually feel badly for not trusting them enough to be supportive.

But most of all, I want yo all to know how very much I appreciate all of your support and friendship; even though its through the Disboards. It truly does mean the world to me and I pray you all overcome your TTC obstacles.

I'm sorry you've had such a hard time posting here. I'm certainly not trying to kick you off!!

You said all of that so beautifully. I'm very thankful for everyone here as well. I would be lost w/o the support of other ladies going through this crap. I'm glad that your sister's have been so supportive! And I'm glad that you told them what is going on too. It's nice to have family in your corner. I will be thinking of you that you are able to make the decisions that you need to and feel at peace about them. And yay about your DS scoring at the bball games!! WTG! I hope one day to feel those proud moments too.

Good morning everyone!

Rachel- that was very well said, and I am glad your sisters have been supportive, and now they can be there for you as you decide what the best next step is for you . And congrats to your DS- those are exactly the types of moments I am hoping and praying to experience someday!

My husband and I decided to skip the allergy meds and stay in the game- so I hope it is worth it this time! Haha. DH has another appointment to get a SA next week because the doctor decided he wanted one more. I might cancel and re-schedule it though because it might land right on ovulation time and I don't want it to mess that up- so we'll wait and see.

Crossing my fingers for Esbrick and even Cherbear still (you aren't officially out yet right?). Are those the only ones in the TWW?

I hope this is another lucky month for us- let's keep the ball rolling after WDW's BFP!

Glad you are staying in the TTC game! Hopefully it's worth it and it gives you your BFP so you won't have suffered during spring for nothing.

 

[Kennywife]

Well, I'm out for a while anyway. I want to find out what to do about my fibroids and get my IBS back under control first. Maybe later on this year we'll try again....

Plus, I've got several upcoming work trips to keep me preoccupied.

Anna

 

[Leger13]

Well, I'm out for a while anyway. I want to find out what to do about my fibroids and get my IBS back under control first. Maybe later on this year we'll try again....

Plus, I've got several upcoming work trips to keep me preoccupied.

Anna

awwww sorry you are out for a while but I think you are doing the smart thing by getting your other medical issues under control again first. And thank goodness for those trips keeping you occupied! The time will fly by Take this time to relax and focus on you and your DH. I'm sure it will be a nice break.

 

[cherbear]

KG, I'm pretty much out. The only reason AF hasn't shown up is because of the progesterone. I took one this morning and then decided not to take my 2nd or 3rd doses today. Tomorrow at 9:30 I go for a beta just to be certain. Then the plan is injectibles...

oh boy, those are gonna COST me.

Also, we may be changing donors. Maybe this one just isn't compatible. I'm sad that we've tried this IUI thing 3 times and gotten nothing out of it. Something's gotta give.

 

[D&DDisney]

So sorry Cherbear. This really has been a horrible day.

We lost our beloved dog of 14 years today. So hard. She was such a good dog who has been our fur baby through all this infertility crap. She was there when the IUIs didn't work. She was there after my surgeries. She was there when the adoption almost didn't go through. She was there for every BFN and licked me while I cried.

Please tell me something good is going to happen soon.

 

[cherbear]

Oh D&D I am bawling!!!!! I know what it's like to lose a doggie. Oh and 14 years...oh I know you miss her but just think of all the good times and all the ways she cheered you up in the sad times. Oh how I pray that you'll soon get your BFP soon and you will be able to focus on preparing for a new baby.

 

[D&DDisney]

Oh D&D I am bawling!!!!! I know what it's like to lose a doggie. Oh and 14 years...oh I know you miss her but just think of all the good times and all the ways she cheered you up in the sad times. Oh how I pray that you'll soon get your BFP soon and you will be able to focus on preparing for a new baby.

Thanks. Your kind words mean so much!! Those fur babies can really be a joy when your world is falling apart.

I so hope that we all can get those BFPs and close this thread down.

 

[skuttle]

KG, I'm pretty much out. The only reason AF hasn't shown up is because of the progesterone. I took one this morning and then decided not to take my 2nd or 3rd doses today. Tomorrow at 9:30 I go for a beta just to be certain. Then the plan is injectibles...

oh boy, those are gonna COST me.

Also, we may be changing donors. Maybe this one just isn't compatible. I'm sad that we've tried this IUI thing 3 times and gotten nothing out of it. Something's gotta give.

You sound like me. I did 3 Clomid/IUIs that failed. Now my next step is injectibles. I'm in the Baton Rouge area...not sure if we are in the same area.

D&D, I am so very sorry about your dog. It's amazing how much comfort they give us. They just know what we need and when we need it. It's so hard when they are gone.

 

[esbrick]

So sorry Cherbear. This really has been a horrible day.

We lost our beloved dog of 14 years today. So hard. She was such a good dog who has been our fur baby through all this infertility crap. She was there when the IUIs didn't work. She was there after my surgeries. She was there when the adoption almost didn't go through. She was there for every BFN and licked me while I cried.

Please tell me something good is going to happen soon.

Oh Deb I am so sorry I'm trying to keep positive myself that things will get better. I have to think that way because there is no giving up! Each time one of us gets a BFP it is a victory! We've all discussed it and we've all asked "why me?" but although I wish I wasn't here fate has brought us together! Keep up the strength girls! Good news is comin!