You'd think, having asked questions on a dedicated Estate forum on a Legal discussions bulletin board, and asking the lawyer we retained to help us in administering my deceased mother's estate, I wouldn't have to come to the DISboards for advice. However, the lawyer turns out to be a totally waste of money, refusing to give me straight answers to straight questions (I'll be filing a complaint once I'm really done with the guy), and the estate forum being equally useless, with responses basically being of the order, "Pay for a lawyer, you cheapskate!"
So here I am, asking these questions here.
What must I, as executor of the state, do to preclude creditors coming at the estate with bills two or three years from now? To protect the beneficiaries, I need to know where, in New Jersey State Law, it says that I have to do what you believe I have to do, and most importantly, where it says that doing that is sufficient to protect the estate from late creditors.
I was all set to send letters to all the doctors who she's used over the last three months of her life (because I don't know who else could be creditors of her's) but when I asked if I should my lawyer didn't say yes. Note that he didn't say no either. He said someone else should have done something else. (Grrrr.... WTH is wrong with a person who cannot answer a straight-forward question with a straight answer? Anyway...)
Thanks for the assistance!
So here I am, asking these questions here.

What must I, as executor of the state, do to preclude creditors coming at the estate with bills two or three years from now? To protect the beneficiaries, I need to know where, in New Jersey State Law, it says that I have to do what you believe I have to do, and most importantly, where it says that doing that is sufficient to protect the estate from late creditors.
I was all set to send letters to all the doctors who she's used over the last three months of her life (because I don't know who else could be creditors of her's) but when I asked if I should my lawyer didn't say yes. Note that he didn't say no either. He said someone else should have done something else. (Grrrr.... WTH is wrong with a person who cannot answer a straight-forward question with a straight answer? Anyway...)
Thanks for the assistance!