Surely understand staying off property in your (and others') situation. I'd do the same thing.
Sooooo many variables in preferences in eateries and attractions.
For us (absolute faves marked *)
Eateries:
Table Service:
Chef Mickey's*
Steakhouse 71
Chefs de France*
Via Napoli*
La Hacienda
Crystal Palace
Skipper Canteen
Yachtsman
Boatwright's
Maya Grill
Counter Service:
Columbia Harbor House*
Cosmic Ray's
Casey's
Sunshine Season's
Food kiosks in Epcot during Food & Wine and Flower & Garden festivals*
Katsura Grill*
Les Halles*
Flame Tree Barbecue
Ronto Roasters*
Pizzafari
Attractions:
MK: Jungle Cruise, Pirates, Haunted Mansion, Space Mtn, Buzz Lightyear, Teacups, Seven Dwarfs*
EPCOT: Soarin', Mission Space, Spaceship Earth, Mexico, Test Trak, Remy*
DHS: Rise of the Resistance*, Slinky Dog, Tower of Terror
AK: Safari, Everest, Flights of Passage*, Navii River