Well, perhaps if we held the meet at the Southwick Zoo in late April/early May it would be warm enough for a picnic at the zoo. I think it would be cool to not only be able to have a meal and a chance to socialize but also have an activity option.
A park would be a good choice for something like this too. There is a really nice park near me that has beautiful picnic tables and grill setups (Look Park, Northampton) but that may be too far in western Mass. for some people to travel.
Any other ideas? Parks, zoos, restaurants?
stina