Nervous/scared

pls5286

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DF is in line for a promotion at work and wnd working 6 days a week because they are short staffed. He is trying really hard for this promotion to asst. Manager. One co-worker frequenly calls out due to no ride to work and will only work certain hours because of ride. She asked for overtime but won't work Sun at all and can only work 4 hrs Sat and needs Fri off and can only work 2-8 the rest of the week. DF will work any hrs, any shift, comes in when call

The new schedule was posted and he is schedled 46 hrs, she has 34. She confronts him about it, says stuff to customers, etc, gets a big attitude. He tells her to drop the attitde with him, she gets worse, so he says drop the dang attitute with me except uses another word, but not in front of customers, another employee is present.

He tells her he did not make the schedule take it up with manager, she goes to ranting and calls manager saying he cussed her and said lots more stuff. She then goes to the other employee present and says all I have to do is make one phone call and he won't be standing behind that counter.

She is from a rough neighborhood and the people she associate with could do this. Tonight is my first night home alone since this happened and I am scared. Kids are at my parents and DF working 3rd tonight. I don't want to go to sleep, I just want to go sit with him at work.
 
First off just relax. I would suggest your DF not say a word to her. The more he says the more mad it will make her. Do they both work the same shift? Hw does he feel about her and the situation? I would suggest he go to the boss and let him know what is going on. Further more there are laws that protect people from harassment at work, espescially if she is threating him. He can file a complaint with HR. This person has you all worked up for nothing.

I would also document everything that is being sad to me. Most of the time it is all talk and nothing more. She needs to have a talk with the boss. I am also sure the boss knows all about this person and how they react to things. Try to get some sleep and dont let this bother you. I hope some of this helps a little. Jo
 
:hug: Workplace and neighborhood conflicts really stink. I hope the night went smoothly and you're feeling better this morning.
 


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