I just want to thank you all for your thoughts, prayers, and wonderful comments.
I really appreciate everyone's stories, they made me realize that I am not alone. This, like so many other things, has a way of making you feel like you are the only one going through it.
I gave everything everybody said alot of thought. I even considered adopting newly realized brothers Mike and Wally.

There were alot of pros and cons to that plan, however the kicker was that they each come with husbands and I do not need any additional husbands.
So, I have come up with this so far...
For now, I am sticking with my no-IVF stance. I, of course, retain the right to change my mind.

I simply cannot see "wasting" the $500 for a non-guarantee and I looked at some pictures of children waiting to be adopted and I know I have to try that if the IUI's don't work.
I want to thank you all again! You came through in a big way when I needed you!