Neighbor's Child who Runs Around in Birthday Suit...

I must agree with the previous posters who mentioned perverts. Some of these sickos excuse their molesting of children by saying the little one "was flirting with me." Running around naked would just be more "encouragement" in the mind of a pedophile. In this day and age it is dangerous to attract the attention of such people, and they are everywhere.
 
My DD loves 'naked time'. I also have a hard time keeping clothes on DD. I make her keep them on in public, but at home that is one battle I am not going to fight (for the most part.) She will outgrow it and it will become a none issue. I would not have a problem with the 2 year old running around naked.

And maybe the parents don't want to change the behavior. Not everyone has the same standards. What "social ramifications" are you concerned about? If the kids don't want to play with her because she is nude the parents will figure it out and choose to cloth her if they want her to play.

I would not like her playing in my yard without my permission and would definitely say something about that.
 
For chrisakes,, she is 2.5. Let her be. It is not that big of a deal. Now, if Chester from next door comes out to watch every time she s out, you may want to restrict her activities.
 
Whatever happened to YOU telling your kids what you want them to do instead of YOUR kids telling you what they want to do? I'm sorry, but my kids would not have been allowed outside, naked. They either put clothes on or they stay in. Period.
 

Originally posted by Dopey Sharon
Whatever happened to YOU telling your kids what you want them to do instead of YOUR kids telling you what they want to do? I'm sorry, but my kids would not have been allowed outside, naked. They either put clothes on or they stay in. Period.

I personally dont have a probelm with my child being in our own backyard naked....its part of being a kid!
The playing in the sprinkler at someone elses house, naked or dressed is where I would have to draw the line though. I purposely have my sprinkler system set to go on from 5am-7am so I dont have the problem of kids playing in them. If my daughter wants to run in it (and YES she runs in them NAKED) I turn the backyard zone only on for her during the day.
 
It is the permissivenss of the parents that I would be worried about too - not the nakedness. Most children that age run around naked at some point. If it were me, I would not be shy about saying "honey, if you're going to play at our house you have to go put some clothes on", but that might give her the idea that she is always welcome to play at my house!

A parent's job is to provide boundries and if it is making the neighbors uncomfortable (and it is not inside your own house or behind a fence) then it is time to set some boundries. My neighbor's kids are considerably older than 2 1/2 and didn't have boundries set for them while growing up - it is a huge problem.
 
When my DS was two I recall him going through that same nekked stage :) But the rule was only inside, when he was outside, he had to have clothes on. It was "the rule" like any other, no biting, no food throwing, etc.

Agreed on the pedophile issue as well as the not letting her play in your sprinkler system. That's just not right.

Anne
 
Originally posted by Dopey Sharon
Whatever happened to YOU telling your kids what you want them to do instead of YOUR kids telling you what they want to do? I'm sorry, but my kids would not have been allowed outside, naked. They either put clothes on or they stay in. Period.

IMO, with toddlers, you have to pick your battles. If I insisted on my way 100% of the time, I would be fighting my two year old all day. I pick the things that matter and deal with the rest. She clearly knows who is boss (ME!), but she gets a little leeway so she can be a kid. She loves to run naked in the backyard, she needs the exercise (all kids do), so I let her do it.

I find nothing inappropriate about a naked two year old. Everything I have read indicates that this is an extremey common and natural pahse that kids go through at this age.

I insist on a bathing suit in the front yard only because of the pedophile issue everyone else has talked about.

Playing in the neighbors sprinklers would not be tolerated, naked or otherwise.
 
Wow!!!!!! I am amazed at the number of parens who "allow" their kids to run around naked!!!!! The things I learn here on the DIS!:eek:

We had a neighbor when I was growing up who had a kid who loved to escape Naked form the house. I'd be doing yardwork or something and I'd see Kyle running out the side door in the buff. While it was amusing to watch him run around with his mother chasing him to grab him and bring him in, I think I'd find it less amusing to have parents that didn't set limits on that type of behavior.

As a parent in this day and age, I'd be less than thrilled about "allwoing" my kid to b running all over the neighborhood naked, especially with all the perverts thatare aorund today.

As far as your problem, I'd tell them to keep their naked kid out of my sprinkkler system, take her home and put some clothes on her or fence in their yard with a high fence so the rest of us didn't have to watch her run around naked. Clearly the child is being a child, but the parents aren't being parents. Limit-setting seems to be a thing of the past.

Too bad...
 
Originally posted by Disney Doll
Wow!!!!!! I am amazed at the number of parens who "allow" their kids to run around naked!!!!! The things I learn here on the DIS!:eek:


I think pretty much everyone who has responded has said that they allowed it, within limits (like in the house or backyard) Also, everyone seemed to agree that allowing the child to run in the sprinklers in the neigbor's yard was wrong. So, limit-setting is not a thing of the past, the limits other people set are not the same you set is probably a more accurate way to say it.
 
In my house running around naked was giving permission to get their butt's pinched. We would chase them around, trying not to catch them, but gave them a playful pinch when and if we caught them. They'd squeal and run and giggle and fall down because they were laughing too hard.
So, I never really had too much of a problem with naked children. They would put something on, even if it wasn't much, if they wanted to do something other than be chased around the house. :)

But they had to have clothes on when we had company, expected company or went outside.
 
I haven't had any issues w/ my little ones running around naked yet (my oldest is 3), but I have insisted he put on pants when he goes outside. And I wouldn't want him to get any ideas that he should be running around naked after seeing a neighbor child doing so. If I let him run around at home, then what happens then when he wants to declothe when we are out to dinner or at a friend's house? At this age, I feel it is difficult to teach them the differences in situations. For example, my DBIL can't understand why I won't let my child run w/ his cousins after a family holiday dinner until we call them back for dessert. My reasons were made plain to him when we were dining out at a fancy restaurant on New Year's Eve. My child was sitting quietly at the table (3 yrs old) while we were finishing our dinners.... His kids (7, 9, and 12)were running around and playing in the restaurant (inside, not outside in the parking lot). He noticed their absences just after he said, "My kids know the difference betw. dining at home and dining out nice. They know when they must stay in their seats and when it is ok to play." I didn't have to say anything, he saw for himself. But it is very difficult to train my child how to sit during meals when his buddies are running around and playing. It's a struggle every time we dine w/ them. But if I allowed my son to run around the table at home, why would he think he wasn't supposed to run around the table when dining out? And it's the same w/ naked kids. If my son saw the neighbor kid running around naked, then why couldn't he? And if I let him run around the house naked, then why not at a friend's house? I'm not sure they know the difference at this age.

Anyway, I heard about a person I know who was found at a local park who not only allowed her 4 and 2 yr old boys to run around naked, then do number 2's in the bushes, but then since they had no toilet paper nearby, allowed the boys to then run around and slide down the slide and everything naked w/ poop running down their legs. They must have had watery stools or something because fecal matter got all over the sliding board... but the other mothers at the playground were appalled and said something to her, of which the response was nonexistent. She had no idea what she was allowing was disgusting and crude, not to mention, dangerous. Had she even heard of Ecoli Poisoning? Talk about bacteria! I heard of a child who got so sick from Ecoli Poisoning from swimming in a pool w/ not enough chlorine... What about sliding right into the stuff on a sliding board? Needless to say, the other mothers left the scene shortly thereafter. It might be cute in your own home or back yard, but must we make our neighbors uncomfortable? A PP mentioned that a neighbor child went potty on her driveway....... we don't want the neighbor dogs doing that, why would we allow the neighbor kids?

I'm not sure what the OP could say to the parents of this child..... But I probably wouldn't like it either.
 












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