We're still pulling for you guys, but I just wanted to share a personal experience.
Once, treatments like ventilators were considered radical, last-chance treatments. That's not true today. Today, many types of treatment once considered extreme are commonplace, and they are employed not because they are the last hope, but because they are the most beneficial treatment.
Three years ago, my cousin faced a serious medical issue. It was life-threatening, and the doctors decided that the best course of action was to induce a coma. They did, and they kept him in a coma for months while they treated him. They even transferred him to another hospital hundreds of miles away, still in the coma. He went to sleep in Florida and woke up weeks later in Minnesota.
But he not only survived, he has now fully recovered and returned to a full-time, very intense, very stressful work schedule. There is much more to this story, but I'll leave it at that.
The dramatic medical treatments are no longer "last-chance." Now, more often than not, they are "best strategy."