Need to vent!

[ge0rgette2]

 

[minniecarousel]

Gosh, have you ever met someone who's soul purpose in life is to cause friction?

I just need to vent!

I always seem to have a problem from one time or another with people like this.

Have a woman, i wouldn't call her a friend, she's told me she has enough friends in her life, but i guess i'm not supposed to take that to heart.... She is always causing something amongst the 'blacktop' school Mom's.

My daughter is having a birthday party in a few weeks - she's invited her whole class plus 1 good friend of hers from another class - mind you they are 6 and 7yo's. She blew a gasket, calling and carrying on, to not me, but a good friend of mine - stating that her daughter is upset about not being invited and how dare my daughter not invite her. Her daughter and my daughter do not interact that much - girl scout troop only. Yes, i see and speak to the mother, but that has nothing to do with the 2 girls.

She didn't call me but would call someone else and yap at them, unsure if she thought that she would keep it a secret... or tell me, so i'll call and have my daughter apologize. Unsure of the reasoning really.

The other little girl is actually nasty most times - calling us names, hitting the adults on the hiney's and just being plain old rude. She calls me 'poopette' most times instead of my name. The mom thinks its funny - blows it off and says, this is her way of telling you that she likes you... HUH?? LOL This is not something i'd want my daughter to interact with... let alone at a party that's supposed to be fun - why be aggravated?


Yes, i think my daughter did mention on the school grounds the other day about her birthday party and only the class being invited. I explained to my daughter that it wasnt nice, that she wouldn't want anyone to do that to her. It would hurt her feelings. Keeping in mind she's 6, and i'm sure didn't do it to me mean.

I just needed to vent a bit, i'm sorry..

ahhhh....vent away! This is the place to do it!

 

[ge0rgette2]

ahhhh....vent away! This is the place to do it!

 

[disykat]

I'd be tempted to corner the mom and ask her "do you seriously expect me to extend an invitation to someone who refers to me as poopette?"

Seriously though, really? The mom can talk all over town if she wants, no one will fault you for not asking an unpleasant child, from another class, that your child barely interacts with.

 

[ge0rgette2]

I'd be tempted to corner the mom and ask her "do you seriously expect me to extend an invitation to someone who refers to me as poopette?"

Seriously though, really? The mom can talk all over town if she wants, no one will fault you for not asking an unpleasant child, from another class, that your child barely interacts with.

I so agree with you Disykat ... thats my issue. Her children can act up on a dime and she expects us to laugh it off. Her son, 4, is just as rude. Called one father a 'dummy' when he saw him. She doesn't correct them - but most times i don't believe she hears it, or its selective hearing! LOL

If it bothered her so much, she should have called me and not my friend. She called the friend cause she knows i wont tolerate it, i'm not a push over.

She laughs when her kids do something - most times, commenting on 'kids will be kids'. Yes, they will, but there is a time and place to correct them. Every time she calls me, which isn't often, they are screaming like banchees in the background.

My friend said that the lil girl was having her hissy fit, her mother's reply was -" do you see what i have to contend with"... One second here, if that was my daughter doing that - i'd get off the darn phone, sit her down, explain to her that she will not be able to attend every party in school... But my daughter wouldn't do that..

I'm far from condoning what my daughter did too. I'm sure it was partially innocent out of excitement for her party.. but grr!!!!

I tend to doubt too that this mom will say anything to me now.

 

[manning]

The sooner you have her out of your life the better it will be for you. If you have caller ID don't answer the phone. If she gets mad about it just tell her to not go away mad.....just go away.

 

[ge0rgette2]

The sooner you have her out of your life the better it will be for you. If you have caller ID don't answer the phone. If she gets mad about it just tell her to not go away mad.....just go away.

 

[diznygirl]

Trust me, the other moms have her number. Just ignore her. So what if her precious snowflake wasn't invited, you don't owe anyone an apology.

Good luck - and pray her hubby gets transferred out of state.

 

[ge0rgette2]

Good luck - and pray her hubby gets transferred out of state. [/QUOTE]

gotta love it - thats what i needed........... lmao, a nice long laugh!!!
Thanks all for them.

I would hate to disappoint any little kid.. it's not my nature, but in this case.. lol

My daughter might owe hers one as she did tell her she 'wasnt' invited LOL