thelittlemermaid83
<font color=green>My reign will be a super-awesome
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Sorry to come on here and vent but im really angry right now with DD's Dad.
Cut a long story short, he walked out on us when she was 7 months old, moved to Newcastle, seen him once in year, never bothers with her at Christmas or her Birthday's and now has just had a Son.
This man has paid like no child maintenance in nearly the 2 years of her life, and when he does get a jobs its only 2 months after he starts i find out and that was only because he put his employment on his Myspace page. Well FINALLY after months of the CSA faffing around and me getting angry at them, beginning of Feb i recieved a payment plan and how much he will have to pay in maintance.
Well now it the time to pay....and guess what he hasnt
the CSA have called him today and he told them to phone him back at 4pm (he prob wont answer there call) and he since has tried to negioate payment with me claiming he cant afford £210, i nearly chocked laughing when he sent me some text message about how he can give me so and so. I obv texted him back saying thanks for the offer but im not up for negioations, so he sent me some really abusive message back saying I'll get my £$%^$£% money and oh by the way DD now has a brother. Clearly trying to hit me where it hurts, but luckily i am now mature enough not to lower myself back to such stupid comments.I then called the CSA who were shocked that he was trying to negioate a payment with me, so i informed them that they are collecting the money and the amount declared by them. They said they are hoping to get a credit card payment off him this afternoon.
I text "him" back and calmly said that he can either pay off his own back or look embarrased when his employer takes the money out of his wages and then everyone will know he has a child he doesnt look after and that yes i cant understand he is miffed off right now but so am i having to struggle for 2 years without any finanical help from him and im doing the best i can to give DD a good life. What a suprise that he hasnt replied.
I am just so angry
he still seems to able to get away with out paying child maintence , and yet has just gone and popped out another child.I just hope the CSA can get a payment off him or im thinking of just giving up as it looks like hes gonna be one of these men that always avoid payment.
The CSA know where he work etc they just seem to do nothing.
All i ever asked was for him to try and be a good dad, and i feel that its my fault that DD has very small contact with her dad and now this.
Looks like another rubbish month for me
and hope you get it all sorted out soon, take care
you and your DD are entitled to that money and if you want to spend it on taking your DD to Disney then that is up to you as are raising his child on your own while he has not even paid her a visit! I don't think he has any right to complain.
