Need some good thoughts and pixie dust please

[mickeylove2]

I did something terribly stupid, although inadvertantly, and hurt my BFF. I can't make it right, and now she is no longer speaking to me. I am very upset at myself and the situation, I have not been able to get through the day at work without crying every half hour or so. I don't know if she will ever forgive me, I hope so, she is 1 of the most important people in my life. I have apologized numerous times, and she has ignored each text and call. She will not see me, she shut the door in my face last night. I understand that she is hurting, but she has not even given me a chance to explain or try and make it better. I just wish I could take back the last 24 hours and change EVERYTHING. Thanks for letting me vent.

 

[PrincessKsMom]

Give it time. She needs to process what happened and get passed the anger before she can consider forgiveness.

 

[whatcateydid]

Give it time. She needs to process what happened and get passed the anger before she can consider forgiveness.

I agree. If it's happened in the last day or so then the anger/upset will be really fresh for her. You sound like you guys are really close, and I'm sure she values your relationship enough to forgive you when she calms down.

 

[ontariomonkey]

Give it time! As long as the thing you did wasn't a deal breaker, you can try and work on the relationship I'm sure.

Now if you did do a deal-breaker thing, then this is a painful lesson that you will have to learn.