without knowingf the particulars of your plan --
when you buy whole life insurance, you're buying two things: insurance (let's say $100,000) in the event of your death, and an investment that will yield a cash value should you care to cash in the policy prior to death. the cash value is added to the payout -- so that a $100,000 policy may actually pay $104,000 if the cash value of the policy is $4,000.
a portion of the premium goes to pay for the insurance, and a portion is invested. the portion that is invested is the cash value. so if you've paid $3000 to the insurer, and the cash value of the policy is $1300, the balance was used to cover the cost of your insurance.
if you'd bought term insurance, your premiums would be lower, but you would not accumulate a cahs value.
if you wanted to preserve your $3000 you should have put the money in the bank.