Well, I scratched my head for a while and wondered what all the fuss was about. I know that re-booking on board is a big decision, but I didn't see why you would have such a problem asking your girlfriend about it.
Then I realized you were talking about a different BIG question! And yes, I do have some advice.
Run.
Run like the wind.
Don't look back.
Change your User Name, move to a different state. Alaska is a big state.
But, since you probably won't take that advice, and since I now need to prove to all those romantics out there in DIS land that I am not a cad, here is what you should do.
This will require lots of prearranging with your Palo server, and probably a mighty big tip, but you're getting married so get used to spending frivolously.
Prearrange to be given a very romantic table, somewhat secluded from everyone else. Compliment her on how lovely she looks, and coyly indicate that you have something important that you need to talk to her about. Saying this will create anticipation, and you will definitely command her full attention.
But, before the serious talk can begin in earnest, your server comes to the table (just as you have pre-arranged) and begins to tell you the specials of the evening. He happens to mention that one of the appetizers is a delicious bowl of Boston clam chowder, and of course, being a red-blooded American male, this causes you to make a comment about the Boston Red Sox finally winning the World Series. Your server, pretending to be a huge baseball fan (he is after all schlepping for that huge tip you promised him), says something about the curse of the Bambino finally being lifted from Boston. A lengthy discussion ensues between you and your server, about baseball, the Red Sox, and when is it going to be the Cubs' turn, etc. You and your server are so engrossed in the baseball talk, that the server even sits down at the table with you, to continue the conversation.
Girlfriend is getting ticked off. You had indicated that you were (finally) willing to discuss serious matters, and now you are ignoring her. She notices the folded newspaper that your server very unprofessionally set on the side of your table when he very unprofessionally sat down. One of two things will now happen. Either she gets so ticked off that she will pick up the paper to see what the headlines are, or, she will interrupt the baseball talk and remind you that you are there with her, not the server. If she interrupts, gruffly tell her to read the paper for a few minutes while you finish taking "man talk." Either way, she picks up the paper, opens it up, and on the front page in the biggest boldest letters possible, it says, "JUDY, WILL YOU MARRY ME".
Which, may be a BIG problem if her name is Veronica.
This endeavor will take expert timing, the ability to keep a straight face, and lots of preparation. I will be available on the Wonder sailing of November 11, if you need me to stand in for you. But if my wife happens to see me having dinner at Palo with another woman, we will have to make it a table for 5. You, your girlfriend, me, my wife, and her lawyer.
JG