I'm going to list them for you with pros and cons...
AKL....beautiful resort, great view of animals. Kind of distant and not girly.
CR...proximity to MK is terrific, ease of monorail to Epcot. Kind of 'dated' but still okay. Not girly either.
WL...beautiful resort, close to MK. Not so girly.
Poly....very tropical, so a bit different. Close to MK, great beach views of the Castle. Nice theming...could be girly.
BW...beautiful, sort of formal resort, nice walk/boat to DHS and Epcot. Pool is terrific for kids. Very ladylike resort...but no food court type area.
BC...great pool area, has a small grab and go area, nicely themed, with good access to both Epcot and DHS
GF...very girly...doesn't get any more girly than this. Very formal in feel. Close to MK via the monorail or boat. Cons?? Sometimes it feels too formal!
Which to choose?? Up to you. The GF is the one resort I have never, ever wanted to stay in. But, many others don't feel that way. I liked the Polynesian well enough but felt it was just 'okay'. I stayed at WL last summer and found I didn't love it as much as I had thought I would. BC??? Like it there..it's bright and cheery. Would stay there again.
The CR? I've stayed there. I actually bought DVC at BLT. But I sometimes think the tower has gotten a wee bit dated..yes, it's a classic, but I don't really care for the theming all that much.
AKL??? Love it there. We all love animals in my family. We are looking forward to their first stay there in April. I've stayed at both Jambo and Kidani, so can't wait to share the fun with dh and dd.
BW has to be my favorite resort. I just love the feel of it. It's welcoming yet a bit on the formal side. Love the pool area. Love the boardwalk with all the shops on it. Love being able to walk to both Epcot and DHS.
The choice is a very personal one I guess.