Missy & Everyone - Thanks so much for your input. This trip has been REALLY hard to plan as I am Type A (plan & organize everything!) and my sis is the antithesis of that. She HATES having plans of any kind to the point that I can't even get her to decide between 2 restaurants or which rides she wants to do.
Totally get it, I'm a Type-A planner too. You should see my spreadsheets! DBF complains all the time about all the planning, but he always make sure to tell me how worth it it was after our trips! 
Missy - I have answered your comments below:
Monday
LeCellier @ 7:40 pm
Excellent choice, LC is one of our faves! -
Mine too!!!!
Tuesday @ EPCOT
1900 Park Fare @ 8:25 am
Teppan Edo @ 2:40 pm
Hoop Dee Doo @ 9:30 pm
Too much food on this day, I'd cancel Teppan Edo -
My sis really wants to do the show, but isn't a big fan of the menu at HDD so that is why I have Teppan Edo in there.
That's fine, I found the key to the DxDP was realizing you don't have to finish everything on your plate anyway.
Wednesday @ Magic Kingdom
Kona Café @
7:30 am (I changed it to an earlier time)
Yay! You'll get more done at MK this way before the crowds show up.
Crystal Palace 6:15 pm
Kona is awesome for breakfast, though I might either try for an earlier ADR (so you can be finished and arriving at the park at 9) or a later one, closer to 11 (so you can do a few must-dos at MK before monorailing it over for breakfast).
I've only ever eaten at CP for breakfast, but the characters are great!
Thursday @ Hollywood Studios
50's Prime Time @ 12:05 pm
Why not try one of the restaurants at Boardwalk, Yacht Club or Beach Club for dinner on this night? You can easily take the boat from DHS.
- I canceled Sci-Fi and will think about other ideas for dinner.
Check out the menus here.
Here are some possibilities: Cape May Cafe (Beach Club), Kouzzina (Boardwalk), Flying Fish (Boardwalk), Yachtsman Steakhouse (Yacht Club).
Friday @ MNSSHP
I know you're both adults, but MNSSHP goes late, so I would rethink an earlyish start to the day. I would push back TH and give yourself time to sleep in, or bag another park altogether and do a nice pool day before heading to MK for the party. -
I really like this idea, not to mention I am not a big AK fan. Now to figure out where to go for dinner. I was thinking about Big River Grill as my sis loves micro-brews, but not sure since they don't take reservations.
One plan (actually it's the plan we're using for our MNSSHP day) is to relax at the pool in the morning, head to MK in the afternoon and have a late lunch (around 3:30ish) at The Plaza at MK before the party gets into full swing. I went with this plan so we can make the most of the party hours (4-12).
Your other options could include dinner at one of the MK resorts, but it will definitely eat into your party time.
Saturday
What parks do you think you'll want to visit on this day? Do you have the full day or are you departing early?