Over on the NCL pages on cruise critic, someone has posted these excellent links. They discuss what drowning looks like, and shows a video of a near drowning (the person is saved).
We should all watch and read these every year, just to remind ourselves that drowning doesn't look or sound like drowning.
Read:
http://mariovittone.com/2010/05/154/
Watch:
http://mariovittone.com/2011/07/video-of-instinctive-drowning-response/
In that link, there is a lady looking right towards the guy...she has no clue.
And, since safety is so important to talk about, little kids should have proper Coast Guard approved life vests, NOT arm floaties. The arm floaties can actually *cause* drowning, if their little arms go up over their head. Once that happens, little ones don't have the strength to pull their arms down, and having the floats on the upper arms causes the mouth and nose to go under the water.
I learned about this when DS was little, learned about it here on the Dis. Scoffed at it. Went to visit my brother, we all went swimming, DS in arm's reach in his arm floaties. I was talking to my brother. My brother looked past me, his face went weird. I turned around, DS's arms were above his head, his mouth and nose were bobbing under the water. He was SILENT. If my brother hadn't noticed my son... I was in arm's reach, just turned the wrong way. I reached out, got him. Made sure he was OK...later, popped the floaties. Next day bought him a proper swim vest.
I post these things as info, as reminders, so just in case we're next to someone in a pool and we notice someone silently struggling...maybe we'll see it for what it is. And the second bit is posted "just in case". I'm sure it had nothing to do with the 10 year old on NCL, but...arm floaties are just not good. I'm so lucky that my brother noticed, so I post about it in hopes that someone else can learn from MY experience, not their own (or, rather, their child's).