I was on the regular DP when I did it in December 2008. I had to think long and hard about giving up two credits. I did it and I'm going back again when I can do it again.
Time your meal when Wishes will be shown. You have two choices here. Get a table where you will have a view of the show while eating. Another way is to be done with your meal and go to the boat dock and watch it from there. It was such a nice ending to the day for us.
With regard to the whole lobster, they use a band saw to cut everything open for you. It's not messy at all and so easy. A child wouldn't have a problem. We had to ask for the legs to be cut open, but they did it for us. The waitress apologized that it hadn't been done for us to begin with for the meal. It was the nicest lobster meal I ever had.
If you are on the coast I can understand not getting the lobster at Disney. Also, I know the price has come down; so, it does rub me the wrong way that it still costs the same at Disney. The ambiance, etc. at Narcoosee's is too nice to pass up; so, it's on my list from now on. I would do this place OOP even, but I wouldn't order the lobster or dessert if I did that way.