Simple!
Step 1. Pull off the little legs first and suck out the tiny bits of meat. (think of this step as the appetizer

)
Step 2. Break off the BIG claws and eat the yummy sweet meet out of them (don't forget to break the knuckles!

delightful!)
Step 3. Here is the BEST part...enjoy and savor the most fabulous part...the tail.
Step 4...This step is NOT for the faint hearted...hardcore lobster eaters only participate in this step..crack open the body and pick/eat all the tiny little lobster pieces. This is can be very time consuming..and not nearly as satifying as the lobster tail extravaganza..and definately not something you partake in on a first date....but nonetheless...a wonderful finale to the lobster eating process.
*Note: Nice dining establishments normally take all the 'leg-work' out of eating lobster for folks...It will likely arrive at your table all cracked and ready for you to enjoy. So please do so! *
Just us folks up here in New England consider Lobsta-eatin a sport.