Mkrop
I just cant go on demand
- Joined
- Feb 26, 2007
I really don't mean to sound snobby or elitist. I'm really the furthest thing from that. We live in a one bedroom apartment and both work full time.
A baby nurse was here only at night. I didn't have the full 24 hour baby nurse - because I wanted to do it on my own as much as possible. A baby nurse is not unusual - she came from 7pm -7am. We paid her very well and got her dinner every night. That's very typical and we still stay in touch and provide her excellent references and recommend her to our friends to help her find more jobs.
While apparently it's not the norm everywhere, when I met with this nanny at first she was the one who suggested the light housekeeping and all. I checked with friends and found that was what they had with their nannies as well. And the ones who offered to make the food -- again that was an offer not an ask. I was planning to buy baby food and they were horrified I was going to give DD jarred food (which I was totally fine with - gerber or beech nut or something).
Maybe it is just different here.
Yes I am afraid it is. I am glad you had this service but this is not the norm.