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No - snark was not what I intended. I was genuinely asking the question and personally, I don't (and very likely wouldn't) work somewhere or for someone I didn't like or respect.
You would if you had mouths to feed and bills to pay. I have definitely worked for bosses I didn't like or respect. I am sure many have.
The humidifier, on the surface, is a small request. The nanny say that she didn't understand it. We don't know why that is, but maybe she made the right choice rather than muck around with it and potentially break it, she left it for the OP. The OP said English isn't her 1st language, it's possible she doesn't read English. Truly, if that humidifier were that important the OP would have taken those 5 minutes to do it and show the nanny how to use it.
Personally, I would never expect someone to "just know" how to use the equipment in my home, be that strollers, car seats, appliances, or the air conditioning.
$10-$15 an hour is what teenaged girls (I have 2) get around here to babysit. I can't imagine that it is the "going rate" for an adult, professional woman in a major metropolitan area. Also, having hired childcare in the past, I have never expected any "work" other than what related to the kids. I expected them to cook for the kids and pick up after the kids and put any dishes used on the kids in the dishwasher. Maybe if the kid dumped juice down their front then she may try to head off the stain, but never laundry. Not for $15 an hour. I didn't care what they were doing while the kids napped, they were there to take care of the kids.
The OP comes off as needy and demanding with unreasonable expectations. No one and no situation is going to be absolutely perfect and the OP needs to stop listening to her "friends" about how wonderful their nannies are and how cheaply they work.
The thing I find odd is that no one here is even bothered by the fact that the OP has hired this woman and will hire someone else illegally. This is the same board where I have seen people eviscerated to claiming a 3 year old was 2, or a 10 year old was 9, or sneaking a 5th person in a 4 person hotel room.