mousefanmichelle
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- Jun 29, 2006
Before my mom passed away 6 years ago, my parents chose me to be the executor to their estate. My dad is sticking with that decison still and has said that I have the final word on all things regarding his estate as outlined in his will. Now I have read the will and it's full of legal mambo-jambo that I don't really understand. I need help. I guess what I really need to know is what does being the executor entail really?
I don't want to be the executor because both of my sisters (oldest and middle) will make my life a living hell when my dad dies. They think that whatever my dad has belongs to them and then some. They are greedy and feel they deserve everything. I don't want to deal with that. I have told my dad as much but he won't change it. In fact my middle sister has told a family member that she will fight me on everything legally because even though I am the exec. I don't have final say on anything. I told my dad this too. He still holds his ground. Everytime my dad and I talk he tells me that this is paid up and the checkbook is stashed here or whatever else he needs to tell me in case he doesn't wake up the next day.
As it stands my middle sister lives with my dad and if she found him dead she would clean him out and then call my oldest sister and then me. If my oldest sister found him dead she would take a few things she felt entitled to and then call me. If I found him dead I would change the locks. Ugh! I really don't want this job.
So what does being the executor really mean to me?
TIA!
I don't want to be the executor because both of my sisters (oldest and middle) will make my life a living hell when my dad dies. They think that whatever my dad has belongs to them and then some. They are greedy and feel they deserve everything. I don't want to deal with that. I have told my dad as much but he won't change it. In fact my middle sister has told a family member that she will fight me on everything legally because even though I am the exec. I don't have final say on anything. I told my dad this too. He still holds his ground. Everytime my dad and I talk he tells me that this is paid up and the checkbook is stashed here or whatever else he needs to tell me in case he doesn't wake up the next day.
As it stands my middle sister lives with my dad and if she found him dead she would clean him out and then call my oldest sister and then me. If my oldest sister found him dead she would take a few things she felt entitled to and then call me. If I found him dead I would change the locks. Ugh! I really don't want this job.
So what does being the executor really mean to me?
TIA!