Wishing the best for you and your family. I have a small idea of what is ahead for you.
In Feb, my son-in-law's National Guard Unit was activated. My DD was 8 months pregnant with twins! He is in Afghanistan,now, and DD and precious babies live with us! He was still in the state when they were born and got there in time to see his son born and hold his daughter. He left for Fort Hood two days later.
My heart breaks for all the families going through these tough times, but at the same time, I am unbelievably proud as well!
I have learned that soldiers are not the only ones who sacrifice, we also owe a debt of gratitude to those families left behind.
God Bless you!
Sal