for your kind words of encouragement and support. He will know things for sure this weekend, and likely get his orders in the coming 10 days or so. I keep waiting for the other foot to drop, like several times in the past, of someone in higher ranks saying "Oh, never mind." But it's not seeming to happen this time. Things are just unreal. And they may get more unreal as next week approaches. DH and I have been trying for child #3 as we thought he wasn't going anywhere for a good year. I have always been fertile myrtle in the past and now I'm not sure what to think! A baby would be a blessing, but boy would it be hard too! I'm jumping the gun on that issue...will know more next week.