My husband just said

[Buckalew11]

Can you sew? I'd take in a couple of his favorite pants by about an inch or so.

In most states, they can't convict you ( or at least it's way harder ) if they can't find the body. I'm just sayin'.

Just remember: if you smother him with a pillow, no more Disney World for the next 20 years to life.

 

[foolishmortal]

and this ladies (answers in this thread) is why your men wont talk to you, wont tell you the truth etc...

no matter what we say its wrong, and then later you get mad for us not talking and you wonder why. and if we do say oh they look good we get 20 more questions and/or comments about why do you lie, you are just saying that blah blah blah blah blah.

 

[disneyfans95]

.....men; sometimes they don't think before they speak.

Can say the same thing about women.. Lord knows my wife and sisters say some really stupid things.

 

[LuvOrlando]

I'm always tease/threatening to throw out all my DH's undies and replace them with a smaller size when he busts my chops. I think your DH could use a dose of this particular prank

 

[bettymae1121]

He said something like that and then fell asleep? Brave man. Stupid...but brave!

 

[pixiewings71]

I've always told DBF I want him to tell me if I look bad...but that doesn't mean he can ask if I gained weight in 1 day...hello I probably did, it's called water weight......

'But yes, I ask him (when we go out or I want to look nice for something) if I look fat and I want him to answer me honestly. He doesn't just say it tho....

 

[MamaJessie]

Can you sew? I'd take in a couple of his favorite pants by about an inch or so.

 

[bumbershoot]

DH and I have an agreement. If one of us looks bad, fat, funny, etc we tell the other. If one of us asks the other, we answer honestly.

Same agreement around here.

If only DH had followed through with it...could have kept me from these 50+ pounds i've been lying to myself about (I can lie to myself to a drastic degree...), if he'd just TOLD me "uh, hon, yikes" or something like that. As I keep telling him, "YES I'll be sad, YES I might be emotional, but at least I'd be thin and sad and emotional, instead of this size (and still sad, and still emotional but even worse b/c I let myself go like this!)"

Hopefully DH has finally listened to me, and will warn me if I'm lying to myself again...hope springs eternal!

 

[EllenFrasier]

and this ladies (answers in this thread) is why your men wont talk to you, wont tell you the truth etc...

no matter what we say its wrong, and then later you get mad for us not talking and you wonder why. and if we do say oh they look good we get 20 more questions and/or comments about why do you lie, you are just saying that blah blah blah blah blah.

I don't think she was asking her husband if she looked good or gained weight, he just offered up his insult free of charge!

 

[redlight]

Can you sew? I'd take in a couple of his favorite pants by about an inch or so.

That's evil, but given what the OP's husband said, perfectly justified.

 

[MaryAnnDVC]

Unfortunately he wasn't sleep talking. I thought that they taught men what not to say in Husband Class 101

Maybe he was out that day.

Can you sew? I'd take in a couple of his favorite pants by about an inch or so.

How long have you been married? It takes a LONG time to train a man, and every so often they have a relapse.

 

[mumom95]

Can you sew? I'd take in a couple of his favorite pants by about an inch or so.

Oh my, that's the best advice I've ever heard given on the DIS.

 

[C.Ann]

"Did you gain weight over the last day? Those pants on you aren't looking too good".

Then, about 30 seconds later, he fell asleep. Grrr.

Fell asleep in 30 seconds?? Tell the truth.. Where did you hide the hammer?

 

[wdwiala]

Well, we have been married for 15 years. I normally have no problem getting a comment on clothing, weight, etc. It was the "have you gained weight today?" that torked me off. He apoligized today but added "I really have no idea what I did wrong".

I believe that he has no clue. Sigh. I let it go.

Thanks for the comments. My feelings were a little hurt last night and they helped me feel better.

 

[redlight]

I'm glad you are feeling better today, wdwiala! I'm glad he apologized.