It took me 2 hours to select posts that were debates, nonsense and private messages. I went to click to delete, because I don't want to give anyone warnings. Somehow, everything got de-selected. So........
From this point forward, I will delete off topic subjects, and anything good or bad that is debating. Please do not add links to other websites that ask for donations. I said as long as guidelines are met, the thread will not be closed. And, please take the personal messages to PM's. Does that sound right. I think the OP would appreciate knowing how much you want her TR to continue, but think of the rest of the lurkers and posters that have to go through post after post of begging her to continue. She or he either does or doesn't.
To the OP:
When you mention your dh, I think of the 2 cowboy brothers that were on The Amazing Race. I think their names were Cord and Jet. Both of them, could of married my dd's any day. I think you have a winner.