nycbutterfly0923
Earning My Ears
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Hello all! and welcome to my first Pre-Trip Report! Well, my first any kind of report ever. I have been a pretty much silent lurker here at the Dis since about June of this year. A question here, a question there, but mostly silent. I LOVE to read all the trip reports, and decided that it was about time I share my own. So here it is.
A little about me.
My name is Dawn. I just turned 35 years old. I have always loved all things Disney. I have been to WDW twice in my life. Christmas of 1996, with my DM, DF, and DB. This was a trip of a lifetime for me, being that it was my first ever trip to WDW. DB and I had been begging our DM and DF, for years to go to WDW, but the funds were never there. Finally though we were able to go. I loved every minute of it!
My second trip was just this year in July. It came about under some sad circumstances. My DM passed away about 8 years ago. So it has really just been, me, my DF, and DB. But I do have more "family". I have lived with my best friend for the last 11 years. (Don't ask, it's very complicated.) His family has become my family. I love them more than anything. And this past January, he and his family were such a rock for me when we discovered my DF had an abdominal aortic aneurysm. This led to them finding out that he needed a quadruple bypass before the could fix the aneurysm. That surgery went fine, but sadly after they fixed the aneurysm, his body just couldn't handle all the surgeries he had been through, and he passed away in March.
Like I said before, my best friend and his family stood by me and held me up through this whole ordeal. I decided I wanted to do something special for them. At first I was looking into taking his DM and 2 of his DSIL's on a Gaither Homecoming Cruise. When I figured out how much that cruise and airfare would cost for 4 people, I suddenly thought to myself, "Myself, you could take DM, DF, both DSIL's and DBIL's and 3 DNeices, ages 15, 13, and 7, to WDW and save money!" (FYI, if I ever refer to all these people again through this report, this is how I will probably refer to them, it's just easier. His family is my family after all.)
So I started researching, and started talking to each member of his family I wanted to go. (I will say this, your probably wondering why I wasn't including my best friend in this, it's because he is not a crowd kind of person, no way was he going to WDW in the middle of the summer.) I really wanted the niece's to go, but the hurdle would be their father, one of the DBIL's. He is the type of person who is happy at home, and pretty much just home. Not the traveling type. Best friend gave him the head's up on what I was wanting to do, unbeknownest to me, so when I told him I wanted to take his family to WDW, he was like, this is not something I would really ever want to do, but I know my girl's would love it, so yes, we would love to go. (I will also add in here that my best friend thought I was nuts for taking his family anywhere in public.
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While the trip had it's ups and downs, we all had a great time. For everyone but 3 of us, this was their first ever real vacation. All of them it was their first ever WDW vacation.
So, I am sure you are wondering, what does all of this have to do with this PTR? Well, I had to give a little background. See, after we got home, I had the Disney Blues. Bad. There were so many things that I wanted to do, that I didn't get to do, and it was all my fault. I wanted to make sure everyone had a good time, and got to do the things that they wanted. That was more important to me, than me getting to do the things I wanted to do. And that was okay with me.
Pretty much since we got back, I have been itching to go back. My favorite coworker finally just told me, go back! What's stopping you? Well, I started thinking about this, and figured out she was right. What was stopping me? Nobody could afford to go with me. Thinking to myself once again, "Myself, you are a big girl. There is absolutely no reason you can't go to WDW by yourself. Think of all the things you can do by yourself. All the things you wanted to do on the last trip and then some!
So two weeks ago I did it. I booked my trip. I will again be heading to The Happiest Place on Earth Jan. 6-12. 2013. According to my phone, just 61 days til my fabulous Me, Myself, and I trip. I cannot wait!
Up next...more of my plans......
A little about me.
My name is Dawn. I just turned 35 years old. I have always loved all things Disney. I have been to WDW twice in my life. Christmas of 1996, with my DM, DF, and DB. This was a trip of a lifetime for me, being that it was my first ever trip to WDW. DB and I had been begging our DM and DF, for years to go to WDW, but the funds were never there. Finally though we were able to go. I loved every minute of it!
My second trip was just this year in July. It came about under some sad circumstances. My DM passed away about 8 years ago. So it has really just been, me, my DF, and DB. But I do have more "family". I have lived with my best friend for the last 11 years. (Don't ask, it's very complicated.) His family has become my family. I love them more than anything. And this past January, he and his family were such a rock for me when we discovered my DF had an abdominal aortic aneurysm. This led to them finding out that he needed a quadruple bypass before the could fix the aneurysm. That surgery went fine, but sadly after they fixed the aneurysm, his body just couldn't handle all the surgeries he had been through, and he passed away in March.
Like I said before, my best friend and his family stood by me and held me up through this whole ordeal. I decided I wanted to do something special for them. At first I was looking into taking his DM and 2 of his DSIL's on a Gaither Homecoming Cruise. When I figured out how much that cruise and airfare would cost for 4 people, I suddenly thought to myself, "Myself, you could take DM, DF, both DSIL's and DBIL's and 3 DNeices, ages 15, 13, and 7, to WDW and save money!" (FYI, if I ever refer to all these people again through this report, this is how I will probably refer to them, it's just easier. His family is my family after all.)
So I started researching, and started talking to each member of his family I wanted to go. (I will say this, your probably wondering why I wasn't including my best friend in this, it's because he is not a crowd kind of person, no way was he going to WDW in the middle of the summer.) I really wanted the niece's to go, but the hurdle would be their father, one of the DBIL's. He is the type of person who is happy at home, and pretty much just home. Not the traveling type. Best friend gave him the head's up on what I was wanting to do, unbeknownest to me, so when I told him I wanted to take his family to WDW, he was like, this is not something I would really ever want to do, but I know my girl's would love it, so yes, we would love to go. (I will also add in here that my best friend thought I was nuts for taking his family anywhere in public.

While the trip had it's ups and downs, we all had a great time. For everyone but 3 of us, this was their first ever real vacation. All of them it was their first ever WDW vacation.
So, I am sure you are wondering, what does all of this have to do with this PTR? Well, I had to give a little background. See, after we got home, I had the Disney Blues. Bad. There were so many things that I wanted to do, that I didn't get to do, and it was all my fault. I wanted to make sure everyone had a good time, and got to do the things that they wanted. That was more important to me, than me getting to do the things I wanted to do. And that was okay with me.
Pretty much since we got back, I have been itching to go back. My favorite coworker finally just told me, go back! What's stopping you? Well, I started thinking about this, and figured out she was right. What was stopping me? Nobody could afford to go with me. Thinking to myself once again, "Myself, you are a big girl. There is absolutely no reason you can't go to WDW by yourself. Think of all the things you can do by yourself. All the things you wanted to do on the last trip and then some!
So two weeks ago I did it. I booked my trip. I will again be heading to The Happiest Place on Earth Jan. 6-12. 2013. According to my phone, just 61 days til my fabulous Me, Myself, and I trip. I cannot wait!
Up next...more of my plans......