Hello again! It has been quite an exciting week! And I haven't even left yet! I am not sure where to begin to tell you all about the crazy week I just had! I suppose I can start from Thursday- everybody graduated and school is finally over! I think I am more happy then the kids are! For me it means no more getting the kids up- hearing alarms go off, no last minute " hey mom, tomorrow we are having a party at school and I told the teacher I would bring... " no more last minute field trips that need parent forms filled out at 6 am, no more digging in my purse for change for the lunch money, no more " Mom- you have to take us to school because our ride didn't show up" etc!

So Friday - A very weird day indeed. I had been out most of the day- getting a new tire, going to the bank, car needed a top off with oil, tanning, groceries etc. I came home just in time to raid with DH. I should explain what raiding is- we play a online game called Everquest 2. It's really cool and DH is the nerdy guild leader- like a manager of all these people- and we get together every Friday and Monday and play for 3 hours in the evening. Basically an online role-playing game. So right in the middle of it- my mom calls. UGH! My friends and family know not to call from 6- 9 pm..... they know I can not concentrate on the game and talking at the same time LOL. Well my mom forgot. She says she will call me back when I can have peace and quiet time. Um mom I have 5 kids- it's never peace or quiet here! She laughs and says I will call you at 9. Which means its midnight her time! She is in Ohio. Ok so this must be serious. I ask her if she is ok- she says Yes, I just need to talk to you.
So the raid finished early and I call my mom. The line is busy! I just figured she was online. I call back... now it just rings and rings... figured she just got off the computer and went potty before I call her at 9. I call again- finally she answers! "mom are you ok? are you sick?"
"no no everything is fine. I wanted to tell you something."
DH comes down to the kitchen where I am trying to make a late dinner and talk to my mom... he writes down on a paper "did she tell you?" I write back " Not yet" he writes back " well if you say yes, then we are cancelling our trip next week". OMG!!! You can not tell me this!!! I almost start to cry. How can he say this to me??!! So my mom starts talking to me.... DH takes all the kids around the corner to buy some soda and chips for our movie later. Finally peace and quiet! Ok Mom what is it?
"Well I really don't want to tell you because I want it to be a surprise!'
I say " well does this mean your coming to visit us soon?"
She says "Nope"
I say " oh did you book a flight for my daughter to come visit your for the whole summer?" ( we had talked about this earlier in the week when my daughter was driving me insane!)
she says " Nope that isn't it either!"
Ok mom just tell me!"
" well this is for your birthday present......( which is in a few weeks) but we wont go until Sept. I am taking you on a special trip to
Disneyland in Florida!"
I am actually silent- speechless and confused.
" Mom whats going on?"
" I just want to take you to Disneyland for your birthday- a special trip for me and you, your husband already said I could.... I was talking to him earlier, thats why the phone was busy!"
"ohhhh......Disneyland is in Ca and Disneyworld is in Florida ....." I am still in shock I have no idea what to think.
" oh yes Disneyworld that is where I am taking you"
" Mom are you dying?"
" no" she laughs.
She begins to describe all these plans like swimming with the dolphins- at Dolphin Cove and all these places and stuff she wants to take me. All I could do is keep asking her if she was dying. This conversation goes on for almost 2 hours! She claims she is booking it all this week sometime and how she hasn't slept because she is just so excited about planning the trip!
Now I know my mom- the big dreamer.... this is where I get it from... all my crazy ideas. I grew up with so many plans and ideas that just never really followed through. So I am trying to not get too excited about all of this, even though I desperately want too! I want to guard myself so I am not too disappointed if it doesn't happen. I already told her that if it doesn't happen it is ok.
So after I talk to my mom- I go upstairs and talk to DH. He is smiling and all happy for me, but jealous that he isn't going. He says he is already planning on what to do with the money we would save by not going to Disneyland.... Blue Ray Dvd Player, and all this electronic crap!
"So you were serious? we aren't going?" I start to cry.
"Well we agreed that you would only go on 1 Disney trip this year! And we both no you can't pass up a trip with your MOM!"
I cry some more. He says don't cry sweetie. I say "but you don't understand! I have been planning this for months... and I have already had to cancel this trip several times already" He says " September isn't far away!" I say " but you don't know my mom- she does this all the time- well never talks about a Disney vacation... but she has crazy ideas that dont happen!" I was sad to think I would cancel my trip with DH and DS and then my mom changed her mind. Then I am out of a trip! I know it sounds selfish. I cry some more. I explain to DH that how important each trip is and how they are both different to me. I cry some more. He says we can still go to disneyland! But he does ask if we can shorten it a tad!

Shorten the trip? Its already booked and planned!!! I agreed to think about it.